I am 19 and have been with my bf on and off since 5 th grade!Now we are both in college me consistantly and him on and off.I went too a community college 2 yr instead of a 4 yr so i could be with him.The problem is we keep breaking up for dumb reasons and getting back together and i am tiered of it.I almost have enough credits too transfer into a 4 yr college so i will be leaving soon.He is mad and wants to take another break again.I feel as if i go it will be my fault if the realationship ends?
2006-12-21 00:49:07 · 7 answers · asked by Miranda W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is also really mad that one of the guys i went out with on a blind date while we were seperated goes to the school i will be transfering in.I feels so sad like he does not trust me or care for me?
2006-12-21 00:51:45 · update #1
It sounds like he is trying to keep you from attaining your dreams- if he cared for you, he would let you go and be the best you can be. I'm very sorry to hear that you keep breaking up for "dumb reasons" but if it takes so little to shatter the relationship, maybe it's best that you move on. A four year program will really make you more competitive in the job market, open up new opportunities to meet people, and I'm sure if you've worked hard enough in a two-year program to get into college, you will do great. I hope you will seize the opportunity and if this off and on boyfriend decides he does want to be with you, keep it on your terms, not his. Good luck!
2006-12-21 00:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this relationship has run its course. You two are no longer on the same page in your relationship or your way of thinking. It may be best if you break it off completely and leave the past in the past. The break up/get back together game only causes pain and confusion. It's time to put an end to it.
2006-12-21 08:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to look out for YOU and not wait for ANY man!!! If he really loves you, he'll follow you where you go.
Why give up your future for a maybe...just because you have been together since 5th grade does not mean you have a relationship-just a long-term aquaintance. Don't mistake that for love.
Remember-you are the ONLY one you can depend on to take care of you-not just for today, but forever!
2006-12-21 08:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by dmkharleychic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to school and get that education that you need...if you keep on breaking up then he's not the one for you...you'll find the right guy when the time is right...never blame yourself as you have to take care of you....when you both were separated I'm sure he was no angel....good luck and think of you....
2006-12-21 08:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Maggiemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't care for you otherwise you wouldn't be breaking up all the time. Don't sacrifice your future by trying to stay with him now. Go to college. If he cares, he'll be there after you graduate. Or you may have found someone who is better for you.
2006-12-21 08:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by thunder_dan2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, that you can't handle a relationship that does not work, its OK for breaks but not to often. And your education is important.
2006-12-21 08:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by AnnaDaAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called keep in touch
phone numbers addresses email
2006-12-21 08:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋