how can i tell if...?

Question

my girlfriend is bi?

i mean..she said she was bi once but we were joking on the phone... i said i was gay and then she said she was bi...and i said i was gay as in i was happy talking to her and she said "Oh, well im just joking, i tihnk that is sick" I mean, most of her friends are guys on myspace...and she never says anything like she likes a girl for her looks unless she says a girl is beaitiful...but other than that she says she is 100% straight. How do i tell otherwise:?

Answer 1

Just ask her. I am and I told my boyfriend when we met 3 years ago. Honesty is the best policy.

Answer 2

why don't you just believe what you see and forget about it? it will just add stress in life. If she loves you and you love her, then fine. If one day there is clear proof that she is bi, then fine. I mean if she is bi but is faithful to you and not going out with some girl wouldn't that still be ok?.. cheating is a different thing, of course.

Answer 3

First have the complete discussion, Than come to some conclusion. When your mind is completely cleared. Than move forwards. As she said about her self & if it is true than you can't do anything. After all this is naturally.

Answer 4

Maybe she is not sure....I don't consider myself bi but I have been with other women and very much enjoyed it. However, I do not think about being with other women, but I am always thinking about being with a man.

Just ask her what her feelings are about it.

Answer 5

ask her again..if ur stil not sure, and that bothers u it myt be better if u brek up wit her..but i think u shud at least try to trust her wen she says she's not bi

Answer 6

Here's a crazy thought. How about just asking her? It's not like her being bisexual would change your relationship, I hope.

Answer 7

uh retard, she said she wasnt bi and you said yourself theres nothing about her that would make you think otherwise so let it go!