me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now. we have broken up once but are back together now. i was wif him one night, we only juz kissed and touched each other..no sex!!but after that he stop calling me . no msg nothing. when i called him he said he was busy.i mean how long will you be busy since we are both studyin..its e hoildays now..he is working at a pub only at certain nights.e sad thing is that he told me he saw ma msg but didn reply,,, how long will it take 2 type a few words..i m so sad depressed,,,my friends say i m love sick..i dunno i wan 2 tok 2 him ask him y is it like this but i don know how 2 tell him..i know most probably we would fight
2006-12-21 00:34:28 · 19 answers · asked by lovesick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call me
2006-12-21 00:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is common thing in a relationships that deals with sex, some guys thought that to having with sex with their girlfreinds can add up spice in their relationship , some are just taking advantages just for fun, there are possible reason that your boyfreind doesn't call you anymore, first maybe he is really busy, you said he is working...maybe he is try to save some money hey its holidays, he maybe trying to give you gifts, and in the other hand the worse and most painful reason is he saw something on you on the night you suddenly heat up that he didn't want or been disappointed, i know this will create to much pain to you and i hope this is not the reason. Other worse reason is he is having another affair with someone after he had a chance to try with sex with you, well some guys just want to collect, collect and collect after the selection (after they get what they want), they will dispose you just like nothing happens. I know you love him but don't let yourself be like a cheap girl, think yourself, your so LUCKY that nothing happens on both of you, talk to him, face him, dont be afraid what may happen, good or bad the result will be the same. Move on girL! you don't know what love will do next for you.....^_^
2006-12-21 01:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by ksmarcelino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, chances are likely that he's just playing games. So what you should do is stop calling him. When he calls, talk to him for a minute, then really quickly say you have to go. Hang out with your friends, go shopping, anything to take your mind off of him a little at a time. I know it seem slike hell right now, but it'll get easier.
2006-12-21 00:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him, move on. Stop wasting precious time on someone who obviously has issues and does not want to be bothered. Life is to short to sit around wondering what is wrong or waiting on an explanation. Actions speak louder than words. And right now his are screaming. A huge level of immaturity. God bless****
2006-12-21 00:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he's not your boyfriend any more. Get over it, find someone or something else to do with your life and stop being so pitiful. There's probably someone out there who'd really appreciate being with you. If you're still pining over some guy that doesn't care about you, what's up with that? Would you wanna be with someone like you?
2006-12-21 00:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would back off a little. You dont want him to think you "have to have him". Plus, do you really want to sit around and wait for him to quit being weird. Dont waste your time worrying about him. It will either happen or it wont and you shouldn't spend the holidays thinkin' about what he may or may not be thinking. Happy Holidays!
2006-12-21 00:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by DitziD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's either scared of what's going to happen next in your relationship or he really is busy. You need to talk to him face to face instead of on the phone or text. If your talking to him face to face then can't just come up with an excuse on the spure of the moment.
2006-12-21 00:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up, he thought you would be easy to get in the sack when he wasn't getting any and he was right. Did he ask you for sex and when he didn't get any he stopped calling you? I think he was trying the oldest trick in the book. You should count yourself lucky he hasn't called back and get over him.
2006-12-21 00:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have become dependent on him to determine your self-worth. You might want to move along, get to know yourself, and learn to like what you get to know.
The next time you are hurt by a lover. You will have some self-love to draw upon.
2006-12-21 00:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Voila!
Get rid of him quick before he dumps you...
He will dump you.. those things you wrote, they are the signs..
He might have found another substitute of you..
Be smart.. Say goodbye to him and find another man..
Good luck!
2006-12-21 00:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him, ask him wht going on, so what if you fight, that is a relationship. Just tell him how you feel. HOpe everything goes ok.
2006-12-21 00:37:56 · answer #11 · answered by AnnaDaAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋