I have this bestfriend of mine. We used to talk about our own relationships before. We used to play with each other, laugh, talk, walk, call..etc.. Then Finally, He courted me and I answered my yes to him. When we're in our relationship, he don't call me anymore. He seems to shy but I know there's something in his eyes I can't explain. He's my very bestfriend so I know what he feels even we don't talk. It's quite confusing. He broke up with me w/o saying anything. He came back once and broke up again. He asked me again but I didn't agree. I didn't agree because he loves other girl. Then 5 months after, I still love him. But he doesn't know. We're still bestfriends. But seems like he's getting my attention he walks at our corridor, look at me by far (always), look strangely to me like he wants to say something, and always staring at me by far. There's something about us that I can't understand. What should I do? he said he loves someone but I can't understand why he's acting like that.
2006-12-21 00:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him and move on...he's too complicated...u'll go crazy n ruin ur mental peace by thinking abt him..make more friends n go out with them.. it'll take ur mind of this...eventually u'll find someone who'll love u and wont torture u like this...he's a sadist.. he doesnt want u happy..
2006-12-21 00:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do BOTH need to sit down with each other and have a very long chat about how you are both feeling and what you are both expecting out of this friendship/relationship, because there is no way that the two of you can go on like this for to much longer. Also i'm not sticking my nose in and im not judging you either but have you never herd the saying about best friends sleeping together ? You no the one where they say that you should NEVER sleep with your best friend because it does NOT matter how good a friendship you have together, once you sleep with other you have broke that barrier and crossed a sacred line that only VERY VERY FEW people can manage to either rebuild or stick together as partners in a loving relationship. But yes anyway GOODLUCK and i do hope that you two are one of the very few couples that can either rebuild your friendship or start a loving relationship together.
2006-12-21 00:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by muncher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you really feel. Maybe he feels the same way he's just scared to ruin the great friendship you guys have. On the other hand, maybe he just wants to be friends. Sometimes entering a relationship can mess it all up, and perhaps he thinks that. The only way to really find out is to talk to him and stop driving yourself crazy. At least this way you know where you stand, and obviously he's your best friend for a reason, so maybe that's all it's meant to be. Also, things don't always happenw hen you want them to. It could be years before he opens his eyes. Just keep being his friend if nothing else, eventually men see and respect the girl who has been there through thick and thi. Good luck.
2006-12-21 00:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You care enough about this man to place the question in a public forum and allow other people to decide the fate of your relationship; this is sorta sweet of you... The truth is that if you really love someone you need to have some kind of requited feelings coming back. It takes two to love. You dont just fall in love all alone. A crush, thats a one person act, usually, but love--thats two. Sometimes you just have to know who to fight for and who not to, and when and when not to fight for them. If you care that much for him, go for it. If you think he will be happy with this new "girl," let him be happy. Another cliche comes into play here; If you love someone, you have to let them go. If they love you as much as you love them, they might return and be yours, and yours alone. Good luck- Kat&chaz
2006-12-21 00:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should . it will definately lift up some "burden" its good that at least he knows how u felt for him . if he doesn't have feelings for u .. i guess u need to move on .. its all about taking chances. its much better for him to know how u feel rather than not to tell him and wonder .. what if's ..
go ahead tell him . gd luck
2006-12-21 01:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him the true what u feel.. dont keep inside.. if he does not love u anymore just move on ok.. take time to understand him so do give some time for him..
2006-12-21 00:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remaining bestfriends is the best that u can do..too many complications otherwise
2006-12-21 00:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by tas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure u must...if u wan 2 be his best friend again just give him a call..so i will be normal again..trust me girl...good luck
2006-12-21 00:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by -fransisca- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell him how u really feel about himand maybe he'llfeel the same way!
2006-12-21 00:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by I Belong To Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it.
2006-12-21 00:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋