I bash my gf what if i keep doing it will she leave me? she makes me hit her, i cant help it but i love her and dont want her to leave me what can i do to make her not leave me should i hit a little harder? so she would be to scared to leave?
2006-12-20 23:49:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if she makes you hit her mate then that to me sounds like she wants to be turned on (spanked).....but women can and sometimes do suddenly change tack and say that they dont like it anymore, I would just watch it mate because if she suddenly decides to say that you have hit her and decides to take it to court you will be looked upon badly, beleive me mate, my partner has had problems including rape so I know what it feels like to go through the turmoil and pain of things when women dont want it, just watch yourself and for god sake BE CAREFUL because even if she does want to be spanked you best not hurt her because otherwise she will leave and have you up on charges then all I can say is you were warned...
women should be alowed to leave whenever they want, NOT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH VIOLENCE IN ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH A PARTNER so if she leaves good on her if you HAVE been hurting her and I hope she charges you for rape or something simmilar, unwanted contact even.......still get you in a jail here in Australia.
just watch yourself
Mitch
2006-12-21 16:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you ?!!! Unless she's beating the hell out of you with a baseball bat you should never hit her! And how can you ever say she made you hit her; that is just crazy! There is no way you can love her and hit her at the same time, you need help right now and you need to stay the hell way from her until you get it!!! My first husband use to beat me. I didn't do anything the first time cause I was taken by surprise but after that I fought back, I may have gotten it worst from it but he didn't come out of it clean. It took me some time to be able to get away from him, there wasn't places for women like there are now. He told me the same bull ****, he loved me, he was so sorry, it would never happen again and the only time he ever get me roses was right after he'd tried to beat the hell out of me. If you hit her again I pray that she's ready for you and turns the tables on you. Ask your mother about what she thinks about you hitting your girlfriend.
2006-12-21 00:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No one can MAKE you hit another person. If she is smart she WILL leave and she will also press criminal charges against you.
2006-12-21 00:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noooooo!
Look for professional help, I left my bf for that reason, and I loved him so much, but He wasn't ready to look for help.
Remember that you can be arrested for this reason and she can put a restriction order.
If you rely love her you are going to look for the help that you need.
Buena Suerte!!!
2006-12-21 00:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by latina_y_sincera 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope your gf calls the cops on you. men who hit women need to spend a little time in jail getting beat up by someone bigger than them.
2006-12-21 00:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by quinlangal 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is widely accepted in my culture. but in most of the civilized world this behavior will get you locked up. I suggest you let her go and satisfy your desires with prostitutes or porn and spank lotion
2006-12-21 00:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by hadji from des moines 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ew, your sick! You need help...If I was your gf I would totally leave you and report it! Get some help dude!
2006-12-21 00:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by sk8terchic 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
if i was the gf i would bash you back or report you to the police
you are one sick bast@rd
2006-12-21 00:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by acnemycin 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
if i was your girlfirend and you hit me you would be 6 feet under
2006-12-21 00:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by missprissyky 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ask her daddy what you should do in this situation
2006-12-21 00:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋