I don't believe in divorces at all and all I have done was talk with this young man when I see him and there is a connection I just asked a ? what do you call two people the can not give 100% at this time but have feelings for each other.
2006-12-20 23:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by China 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to be a little more clear than that
2006-12-20 23:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by wafer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem.
You say you don't believe in divorce, but even contemplating a relationship with this other guy is a betrayal of your marriage vows.
When you married your husband you were required to Stop TRYing to "connect" with other people. The grass is always greener on the other side of the street. If you are constantly looking for something "better" you will find it.
Rethink your marriage, or rethink your opinion of divorce.
2006-12-20 23:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a step back and look at this from your husbands point of view. what if he had someone he secretly was talking with and became emotionally attached to? Then you found out about it how would that make you feel? There should be no secrets between a husband and wife. once you get married you become one. I can tell you from experience because my husband did this to me and when I found out it was devastating to me!!!! He was just talking w/ her and became emotionally attached. I found out before it had gotten any further...But to me it was as if he had done the deed!!! It hurts very bad , and after 2 yrs I'm still trying to work threw this. I know now he is totally committed to me now, but it will all ways be with me. I don't know how to make it go away. You need to cut all ties with this person that is not your husband , and concentrate on the man you married. unconditional love is when you love someone even when that someone is not love able....
2006-12-21 00:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that simple. We're human beings, which means we all have something in common. You may meet many people in your lifetime with whom you have a "connection". It's called temptation and you have to deal with temptation, if you want your marriage to survive. Leave this young man alone. Stop all of the talking and remind yourself that you're a married woman.
2006-12-21 00:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't commit because your involved, but you have deep feeling for this man in a non-sexual way, that is called an "emotional affair".
Maybe you should tone it down, but I do fully understand having a friend of the opposite sex as support.
2006-12-20 23:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Floss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's called flirting and spending time with him in this manner is wrong.... would you want him to do this? on the other hand.not believing in divorce is good.right now your playing with fire.
2006-12-21 00:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by derrik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called walking away, being an adult and part of being an adult is not giving in just because you want to
2006-12-20 23:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u really don't believe in divorce then i call it cheating.
2006-12-20 23:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by cupid6980 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheater - that's what I'd call them. You don't need to have done anything, if it's in your mind then what else can you call it
2006-12-20 23:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by 2dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are cheating on your husband.
2006-12-20 23:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋