My girlfriend who i been with for 4 months still hangs with this lad who she used to fool around with before me..... then she got with me and found out he's bi!!!!!! she still hangs with him should i be bothered cos i am!!! i just know if it were the other way round she'd hate it!! he's been her mate for years though! just i know he's aint such a good person lies alot uses people!! dont want him minipulating her!
2006-12-20 22:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ahh its aight.
im bi .
tell her to be truthfull with yoo about if shes "DOING" him becoz if she can aswer yoo straight away with a genuine answer shes being truthfull...
if not.
she answers slowly and has to think bout it.
shes a cheater aye.
oi!
if shes cheating dump her. people like that only do it coz ur not good enough which shows yoo that oviously ur not up to her standards.
have a good time with that one.
hope i helped yoo out somehow :)
x
2006-12-20 22:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'd have to let her be herself. I would see if she'd grow out of it, then if she didn't, then I've got to let her be herself. bashing someone for being gay, or lesbian is not good for morale. However it's told in the bible that it's wrong, the person has to make up his or her mind, they generally know right from wrong. I haven't got a problem with it. Live and let live. There is much worse in this world than being gay. BUT I would tell her (or anyone) not to go around telling everyone that they are. There are people out there that harm gays. So why tell someone and put yourself at risk. There are people who think certain religions are bad, I'd never tell my religion, political preference or anything else that I know others are agains't , why stir up trouble, right? We live in a society that has tunnel vision.
2006-12-21 09:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by jcanime@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could also be just curiosity. she might just be curious about what he's doing now a days as a "bi". also, girls are usually intrigued by the guys that they used to date and then turn "bi". alot of girls also like hangging with gays and "bi's" because THEY are fun! i think everything is just fine except for the lies and the manipulations.
2006-12-21 07:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a bi girl to be "close" with and see if it bothers her. If it does, point out the double standard and watch her get huffy. I think that'd be rather funny..
2006-12-21 07:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really Love her you cant let her go .Let her feel that you Love her more than the latter but if you dont love her Let her go on with her lad and find one that you trully Love dont waver between two opinions.Thanx
2006-12-21 06:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Rozzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has known him longer than she has known you so i think the choice has to be hers, after all you do not own her and doing anything to him or her will only turn her against you.
2006-12-21 06:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋