all of my friends already have grown boobs, & i feel that guys wont feel as attracted to me because i dont have boobs. i barely fit into a 32a. & im thirteen years old. i have a big butt & thick legs. i try to eat more so that ill hopefully get a little cleavage, but it seems that it goes to my butt, or my legs. maaan, i dont know what to do. my older sister already had boobs when she was 12. -_-
2006-12-20 21:29:24 · 30 answers · asked by nobody 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Any more than a handfull is WASTE !!
2006-12-20 21:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Arent you too young to get worried about this right now? You have many years to go before your breasts grow. Give nature time to do her job.
If your breast development isnt normal when you are around 15 or so, maybe you can get yourself checked if there is a genetic or hormone problem that inhibits growth. Whatever it be, never go in for any of the pills and exercises that advertise growth. They dont work.
At least what you can do now is to stop eating more as this wont help in your problem. Cut down on your eating fatty things, do some abdomen exercises, or simply walk, skip or jump to bring your bottoms to tolerable shape. If you neglect these now, you may find yourself too unattractive to others even if your boobs grow well.
All men dont necessarily get attracted to big breasts. A real man would look at the total personality in a girl, not necessarily only at her breast size.
2006-12-21 05:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the eating more...it won't change anything and just give you more problems in the long run. You need to enjoy a healthy diet and quit comparing yourself to everyone else! Everyone is different and develops at different times. That doesn't make you un-attractive!! I didn't move out of an A cup until I was 18...then I was a straight B until after I got married and had my first baby! And I was over 25 yrs old then!
I know it's hard to watch everyone else grow and change and still feel "babyish". But your time will come, you just have to be patient. Worry about your grades, being a good friend, enjoying your favorite sports and activities...and you will be beautiful!! Being unhappy and picky about your body and jealous of your friends will just make you miserable and no fun to be around. Give yourself a break! Have a great Holiday!
2006-12-21 05:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh..you're only 13. Don't worry about it, alright? For the record, eating more ain't gonna make your boobs grow. On another note, and I hate to say this beacuse of your age, but a lot of men (like me) would take a chick that has a big butt and thick legs with a flat chest over a chick with a big chest that has a flat butt like Paris Hilton...think about it. Actually, don't. You're only 13.
2006-12-21 05:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small is beautiful! You are only 13, u shouldn't be worrying over this issue girl. That's not your priority.
Why not change a point of view? Should i say those guys who were attracted to big boobs were superficial and know nothing about inner beauty?
You are only 13, you are still growing.Take this chance to eat more during your puberty.Everybody has different pace of growing up.Exercise and maintain a healthy diet.
Get a life!
2006-12-21 05:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad that you are worried about this issue.
We as women are not defined by our breasts.
It is society that has done this to us.
Some girls are late bloomers in that department.
One year there is nothing and the next year WOW!
You cannot hold yourself up to every other girl, for you are unique and your body knows what is best for you.
Believe it or not, many guys find other features more attractive than breasts.
ALL men love ALL breasts, that is true and will never change.
But not all men must have larger breasted women.
Why don;t you wait another year or two and see if this does not change.
Even if it doesn't...smaller breasts are beautiful too.
Models, as a whole do not have large breasts.
Large breasts lose their shape and elasticity faster.
Smaller breasts fit into clothes easier.
Please whatever you do, do not allow your breasts, and society's standards of them, to define you or your beauty. Not ever!!
I will bet you the world, there are many men in your future who will just love your size!!
Remember, you are unique. There is no one like you in the world.
And your body will settle into itself...be patient.
I want you to go on the web and google search "advantages of smaller breasts", or similar key words.
You'd be surprised what you find.
Also, girls with larger breasts are not always happy about having them.
Believe in yourself and your own beauty.
Please.
2006-12-21 05:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Seattle 7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't feel this way for long. By your 14th birthday your breasts will probably be much bigger than they are now. Your older sister doesn't have your exact genetic makeup, but its good to know that she has boobs because you know what you can look for. One toher thing, don't eat to make your boobs grow. It won't work and will only add weight to the rest of you. The reason you don't have larger breasts right now is because your body isn't preparing you for a baby yet. Most women fatty breast tissue comes in fully when their body is old enough to make a baby.
2006-12-21 05:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by mommysylvia25 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. u need to chill and 2. Like every other person said to you your only 13 years old your still maturing and still going thru the lifecycles so yeah its gonna be a while be your fully devoloped and its nothing to get like freaked out about.. and honestly if u ask anyone Its not about if you have boobs or how big its the inside that counts not the outside
2006-12-21 05:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sean S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry! You're still so young and don't need all of that unnecessary attention from older guys. Women's breasts continue to grow until they are 21 years old. Look at it this way, if a girl with a big chest tries to wear one of those cute, tight fitting little t-shirts...people look at her as skanky. Since you are a little less in doud in that area, those types of things look really cute and sexy on you.
2006-12-21 05:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your only 13 years old...you and your boobs have about another 7 years of growing to do!!! Stop fussing and enjoy the ride- you'll have them in no time at all, and when you do, you'll most likely wish you were 13 again!!
2006-12-21 05:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Lilly lola 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately god chooses to grace us all differently. i'm almost thirty and have virtually no chest but i buy different bras and things *chicken fillets for one* so if i wear a particular dress or top i can fill it out, but it also means i can wear *like another post says* tops that would look stupid if i had big ones..
you're thirteen, enjoy being young! there's so many worries in life, don't let this be one of them. you have god given talents that others don't have, whether it be artistic or scientific or lovely hair! enjoy what you have, not what you don't :D
2006-12-21 05:42:58 · answer #11 · answered by starbabygirl1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋