2006-12-20 21:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In most cases it is unfinished/unresolved issues from our childhoods. We are drawn to the people that we are, as a result of unmet needs that we hunger for and many are unaware that that is what is going on. If those get healed than our attraction shifts and changes with the shift of perception. I know that the kind of people I once was attracted to in the past, I wouldn't even want to spend any of my time with today. And others, that went ignored before, would be met with my being attracted. So, it is our internal make-up that does it and that is often unconscious.
2006-12-20 21:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's get into the basics of Physics - Unlike poles attract each other. If the other person has a different personality, you are attracted.
2006-12-21 07:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by sandhigdham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we are first attracted to the physical because that is all we about the person at first glance... Then I believe that it is their personality that we are drawn to and finally after we get to know someone we are attracted to them because of who they are as an individual... Caring, kind, compassionate, loving etc...
2006-12-21 05:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty
2006-12-21 05:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see an attractive lump under their clothes.
2006-12-21 06:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Dutch V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sixth sense, some how usually u know if some is nice or a jerk so it starts from first impression. some other people base it pruely on what they look like, really depends on the person
2006-12-21 05:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it's a single glance or even something that
the person says that fixes your attention on them.
Whatever else it is, it sure is magickal!
2006-12-21 05:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by Van T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person we can identify with. Like mindedness. Someone who ' awakens ' us to think. Someone who hugs your soul not only your body.
2006-12-21 05:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
opposite genders, (some times the same if that person wants to be gay
2006-12-21 06:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by -*B*-Radicalll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an individual thing.
2006-12-21 05:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kedar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋