I will meet this man face to face though we just chat online in the past. Need your suggestions hurrily. Thank

Question

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter

Answer 1

Yeah. My advice to you is not to meet anyone from the internet, until you have talked to them for a very long time. You don't know what kind of man he is. I waited 2 years to meet a girl, and ended up marrying her.

Answer 2

So I guess you are a woman.

Well, from my online meeting experience I would say:

Just put a meeting place and describe how you look, in case you don't already shared photos with you. In rest, just do the normal stuff. Go se a movie or something...it's not really a big deal if you already know eachother from the chat, but you must be carefull, strange people hide behind the online chat... it's easyer to tell a lie!

Answer 3

i hope you've chatted for a long time before you deciding to meet him. the problem people have in meeting peolple on line is that the excitement and mystery overides common sence that would normally be used when meeting someone on the street.

did he give you proof of identity

you should meet in a place completely distant from your home that you are comfortable with not him. he's the man if hes cowardly in a place where you are comfortable you dont want him anyway, how does he expect to keep you protected.

bring the mace

walk away if he brings a freind to"check you out"

keep a bodyguard (big brother) close by but dont let him know he's there (after all your the woman)

go no place cozy

dont leave the table without your drink or without finishing your meal

really though you dont know him, kind words over the net easily mask a serial rapist. im not being dramatic but as a woman you have to be protective of yourself. your not the first to have done this, after all the photos you see on milk cartons don't always tell you that this woman met someone on line oneday and never was seen again.

I met a woman this way years ago needless to say i didnt marry her she said she was "pleasingly plump" and 5' 7' yeah okay tall'ish any a bit meaty right well she was 5' 3' and wider than me dressed in sweat pants run down shoes and no bra and she wanted to take me to Bookbinders. come on I take no one for a fifty dollar meal who isn't honest to me from the door.

its easy for me I'm 6' 3' 270 she wasnt going to over power me, but as a woman you have to remember to be smart. watch the movie "phone booth" before you meet him if you can.

a guy likes a mysterious woman tell him to meet you somewhere theres a phone near by and check him out with a pair of binoculars from across the street on the third floor of a office building.

You will see if any one is with him
if he doesnt look right i
f he is as his pictures says he is
if he's high on drugs
he'll never know where you are until youre comfortable.

if hes happy to write you on line he shouldnt have a problem talking to you on the phone from a distance. if he gets impatient walk away he should find it fun and be completely understanding of your position, but you dont let him know your doing it for your protecting if he's smart he should figure it out.

be careful.

Answer 4

I believe it all to be in personal opinion. I met a couple of really good friends of mine that all started with chatting online. I actually had one friend come from Michigan to stay with me for 3 weeks to get away from her abusive ex-boyfriend. (Too bad that she ended up going back to him after that. But thats beside the point.)

Just trust your inner judgement on it. First instincts always seem to work out the best and are the way to go.

Answer 5

y did u post this so many times? oh well ill answer this all 5 times its posted 5x2=10 and didnt even have to get picked as best answer

Answer 6

hi you sure be very careful meeting some one on line. i met some years ago and i Thoth he was very nice for 6 years we dater then something very very bad happen to one of my family menders that I'll never forget and now we have to go to court to put him in jail be very careful. good luck