Frustrated about mood swings and confusion.?

Question

Lately everything for me has either been up or down to the extremes with no real middle-ground.I take care of myself am physically fit and generally live a good healthy lifestyle,but i have so many things that haven;t been sorted out in my life and don't know if they ever will.It seems like time is catching up with me(i'm in my late 20's)and i'm still not where i want to be,and how to go about getting there. I rarely smile or laugh anymore,and it seems like living here(i live in california)is becoming more of a drag.I'm a certified personal trainer,but i came out here to be a musician(i want to get into whatever avenue i can make a living at,and still haven't got to where i wanna be because i've always been sidetracked and confused on which path i want to take.It seems like its almost impossible to find a job out here and i am losing hope.Please help with some input if you could.

Answer 1

Sounds like you may have some depression going on. Not everyone in their 20's is where they want to be in life. You really are still learning what it is you want your life to be at that age. I know I was. In your 30's you start to accept that some things may not happen and new things may sound better. By your 40's you are more at ease with what has happened with your life and look back with some regrets and some good memories. By 50, you don't care if you made it, you have to look the way of staying healthy to continue living, as parts of you start to not work well anymore.
What I am trying to say, is that you need to stop being so hard on yourself. We can never predict where our lives will go and what road we will travel. The future is a great adventure. Live it.