I think I like this girl. We can talk about anything under the sun. I was attracted to her looks at first but later got to know that she's beautiful (outside and inside), straightforward and is a nice girl.
Is there any way she could like me? She had made some really nice comments about me that no one else had ever did. She said I was the "cool" kind of people and that she likes me, as a friend. But am I thinking too much because maybe she was just trying to be nice?
I'm admit that I'm boyish (appearance). Many people had said that before. But I can be really shy towards people. I'm a girl. I don't dare to ask her if she likes me because I don't want this to ruin our friendship. What can I do? Am I becoming a lesbian?
And also, a friend of mine revealed to me that he likes me, 2 years ago. He still does. But I just couldn't accept him. I don't know why! There's like a barrier that I can't cross over to...
So please, anyone. Help me. I'm really confused.
2006-12-20 19:13:30 · 5 answers · asked by ktlikewhoa 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well im a lesbian (just so u know) but dont ask her just be her friend and see if she really is the girl you wanna have a seriuos relationship with oh and it would also help if you find out if shes into girls
2006-12-20 19:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are alone there. I consider myself to be straight but have been attracted to female friends because we are close and sometimes you can bond so much more than with male friends. This can be confusing when you interprate attraction as a sexual feeling. Perhaps you could be a lesbian. Mabey you aren't. Don't try to label yourself as either and just follow your instincts. Be cautious when sharing your feelings with the individuals who may not understand you. Take the time to figure your true feelings before you approach another with this..Good luck. I think you will be fine if you are honest.
2006-12-21 03:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by daisyjzmum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its all about ur inner self control lesbian is a morally evil and unnatural relation u r a girl thats all that is required to be a girl although love has been confused with sexual and physical relation but in real its a bond between two souls so calm down look inside u must understand urself first if u just like her personality and attitude and feel comfortable then its a true friendship and lets not pollute this delicate and noble relation into a dirty homosexual relation
2006-12-21 03:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by anum 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just be her friend for now, and see how your feelings develop. You don't want to make a declaration of love when you aren't even sure how you feel, let alone how she feels. I'm sure everything will work out.
2006-12-21 03:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by jelliclecatharsis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're most likely just jewish.
2006-12-21 03:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by lol what 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋