she knows i really like this guy.. so she madeout with him at my party and said she didnt know what she was doing. i have no respect for her. a year later she came up to me and was saying sorry and things like that .. so then we were friends again for a while untill she madeout with my boyfriend basically in front of me. should i totally ditch her??
2006-12-20 18:18:21 · 22 answers · asked by Barbiex3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she knows i really like this guy.. so she madeout with him at my party and said she didnt know what she was doing. i have no respect for her. a year later she came up to me and was saying sorry and things like that .. so then we were friends again for a while untill she madeout with my boyfriend basically in front of me. what should i do??
the thing is
shes my sister
2006-12-20 18:34:39 · update #1
what should i do??
the thing is
shes my sister
2006-12-20 18:34:55 · update #2
Uhh... yeah. she obviously has no respect for you or your feelings. Tell her you think that you and her have morals that are just too different for the two of you to remain freinds. If she asks why, tell her that the way she behaves w/ guys..making out w/ them, hitting on them all them time, etc is embarrassing, and you'd rather not be around someone who behaves like this.
She needs to hear this. You should tell her. I'd do it over the phone. Tell her that you prefer to NOT be on speaking terms with her as of this moment, and say good bye and hang up the phone.
2006-12-20 18:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by brittany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brake up with him and ditch her. Your boyfriend should have been smart enough not to kiss your sister. Your sister is not a good friend for doing that, so ditch her. Don't hang out with untrue friends. You don't know what they're doing, you might get the news that your sister is backstabbing your, but that's just an example. Good Luck!
2006-12-21 02:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by sarah643 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, ditch her. You already said you have no respect for her. That in itself is a reason not to be friends with someone. So what if she said sorry she obviously didn't mean it if she did it again! If you remain friends with her and she does it again then you are the fool.
2006-12-21 02:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have ditched her the first time, if she did it once she'll do it again. People like her never change. I had a friend like that and we kept giving her chances, until she tired to screw our other best friend's husband. It should have never gotten that far, so cut your losses NOW. And your boyfriend should get ditched to because he has no respect for you.
2006-12-21 02:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should've ditched her the first time. If you let her hang around, she'll just keep doing this to you for the rest of your friendship. You should have more respect for yourself and find a new friend.
2006-12-21 02:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by LuvTooGolf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her, be the bigger person, you obviously wont trust her with certain things including boyfriends and you wont be as close anymore , but forgiveness is the best , plus that's pay back in it self the guilt etc.
2006-12-21 02:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry this happened to you, but with friends like this girl, who needs enemies!
she is not your friend, and it sounds like she wants to take whatever you have, and that indicates to me that she's jealous of you. and all she's going to do is keep on hurting you. so you do what's best for you and kick her to the curb! if you don't, you can be sure she will be up to her old tricks in no time.
Best Wishes
2006-12-21 02:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by atiana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister mamde out with your boyfriend, then she is a whore. That is worse than if she was just your friend. She is supposed to care about you more than anything. You can't cut her off completely, because you will still see her at family functions, but distance yourself from her. She is not to be trusted!!!
2006-12-21 03:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was a Regina George thing to do. Either you ditch her or you go undercover and make her life a living hell silently but violently. Love your enemies, it'll drive them crazy.
2006-12-21 04:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Froggie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ofcourse u should ditch her . she just cant stand u having a bf so she is doin tht to u. she is not a true frnd.
wat she is ur sister why dindt u say this b4 ?
then its simple and clear she is plain jealous and doesnt want u to have any boyfriends.
2006-12-21 02:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by chillpill 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋