I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?
Thank you!
This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter
2006-12-20 17:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by Dark A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Meet in a public space, take a friend for back up, don't give out too much personal information. Do a background check. Be cautious!
2006-12-20 17:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meeting someone on-line is like playing Russian Roulette. Sooner or later you will find someone out there that's going to take advantage of you, financially, physically, emotionally, or worse yet a serial killer, who will take your life. You don't know who you're talking to on the other end. It could be someone that's mentally ill, a predator, sociopath, etc. They can pretend to be anyone they want on the Internet. Some are good at it. Some were actually A+ students in drama. You could get caught up in something you didn't bargain for. Think about it.
If you intend on seeing someone you met on the Internet, meet at a restaurant for breakfast, lunch, or dinner. Don't let him follow you or go anywhere alone with him. Drive separate cars. Don't give too much personal information. He may say he's in the military, maybe it's true and maybe it's not. Don't trust anyone unless you know them well. This day and age, you just can't afford to.
2006-12-20 18:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by a10cowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him in a public place and take a friend with you. DO NOT leave with him. Just because you've chatted with him on-line - you don't know anything about him.
Meet with him, face-to-face, a few times, have lots of really long conversations and ask lots of questions. Really get to know him before you go off with him by yourself.
You need to be extremely careful or else you could end up not being here anymore. Value yourself and your life above anyone else. You'd be better off dating someone you know than a complete stranger.
2006-12-20 18:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with that you should meet at a public place.
I have met two men I met online. Both were sweet. But I have chatted with both for a year and longer. I knew them very well.
I am very sceptical. If I don't feel comfortable with someone or think they aren't honest then I tell them right away. I do tell them what is bothering me and why I think they aren't honest.
Good Luck!
2006-12-20 18:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few things you need;
-The number of a taxi company, and some cash for taxi and phone.
-A cellphone.
-Tell a friend where you are going to be, and with whom, and for how long. Have her call you during your date so you have a way out if you need one, and so someone knows you're okay.
-Meet in a public place, and don't go a second location with him until a friend or family member knows about it.
-Just as precaution, take a condom with you. I'm not saying you'll sleep with him, but I'm not saying you won't/ just be safe.
2006-12-20 18:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Met in a public place. During the day time. Lots of people around. Have your own car. Have a time limit (make up an important appointment).
Be very, very,very careful. We don't want to read about the police finding your dead, raped body in a garbage dump.
Good luck,
a
2006-12-20 18:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a friend along and meet in a public place. He will understand if you are being careful but it is his place to prove you he is legit. Have fun but be safe. Good luck.
2006-12-20 17:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet in a bar or at train station - don't give to much inforamtion about what you are going to wearing
So that when you get they hopefully you will see him first and if you don't like what you see you can do a runner
2006-12-20 17:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by deb_star_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times do you ask this question each day? Isn't there some kind of limit for luring people to your website?
2006-12-20 18:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how mean times are you going to ask this question tonight?
are you trying to get us to go to your web.site?
2006-12-20 17:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by david o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋