2006-12-20 17:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by JAMES R 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
This is a tricky question. I believe that you should always be attentive to your friends and loved ones therefore not fantasizing while they are spending time with you. If you are alone though, I encourage fantasizing. It helps develope your mind and thoughts about things. It can help you discover you. So in the long run, anything done for yourself can be considered selfish, however, you must remember that you are the number one person in your world and must be selfish every day to keep your life.
2006-12-20 19:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Judy J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting question.
I am a great fantasizer - I don't think I go a day without fantasizing about something. But am I hurting someone or myself by doing that?
I think as long as I know it's a fantasy and I still can keep fantasy and reality apart and know the difference, I will be OK. However, if I start to think that the fantasy is real and the reality is unreal, then I will be in trouble.
Is this a real question in YA or am I fantasizing and this question only exists in my mind?
2006-12-21 07:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you are fantasizing about a holiday on a beach or somewhere, or fantasizing what will you do today, thats not bad. But, If your fantasizing about,lets say, about having EVERYTHING as in EVERYTHING in life and being proud and thinking only about yourself and not others, thats selfish. (and bad)
2006-12-21 02:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by bianca b. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would it be selfish? Because someone is actually taking 5 minutes out of their busy day to think about something that makes them happy? How silly.
2006-12-21 01:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no act in fantasizing.
2006-12-21 01:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, no matter what they may be thinking about it is a form of relaxation and we all need more of that.
2006-12-21 01:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by tpbthigb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% NEGATIVE.
2006-12-21 01:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Hollow ✌ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more than eating can.
2006-12-21 01:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋