she has had many orgasisms, and came very close to having the big O but that was 8 years ago. We have tried many different ways but nothing gets us that close again, what are we doing wrong, any suggestions on doing it right?
2006-12-20 17:34:03 · 9 answers · asked by crystalfootballsex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My g spot doesn't help me orgasm. I suggest that she TELLS or SHOWS you how she plays with herself, then YOU do it. Or cunnilingus (eating her) might help....her cllitoris is right above her vigina and if you rub it the right way, and gently, she'll orgasm (try underneath gentle stroking. don't rub her raw...)
2006-12-20 17:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those subjects many couples find difficult to discuss. But you must. First, does she masturbate? Can she give herself an orgasm? Has she ever given herself an orgasm? Has she ever had an orgasm with anybody or anything? If so, then the "problem" is correctable. If she has never had an orgasm in her life, she should see her doctor and ask about this. There may be a medical issue here. If she has had orgasms and with masturbating, then the problem may be psychological and you should both see a therapist who specializes in sex therapy. I assume from the 15 years and the question that you really want the relationship to continue. If so, then it's really worth exploring every option. Good luck.
2006-12-20 17:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again I have that same problem,I reached the big O,once out of 14 years! I'ts not you or the way you're doing it,9 times out of 10 it's a medical condition!
2006-12-20 17:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter if she has a orgasism or not, as long as you have great sex? Maybe you should try a different position then see what happens. Do more foreplay. Just try anything.
2006-12-20 17:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get her a vibrator for christmas! Get her super hott with it then hold it on her clit while you make love to her. Focus less on the g spot and more on her clit. If that doesn't work take her to the doctor.
2006-12-20 17:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the Kama Sutra or tantric sex. Tantric also helps make the "o" last longer.
2006-12-20 17:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by acestjohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cunnilingus, always works for me! Oh and by all means no matter how you do it, handle gently, roughly only irritates me!
2006-12-20 19:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about getting a good vibrator? Always works for me.
2006-12-20 17:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by HollyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slowly and consider more oral sex before penetration
2006-12-20 17:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋