my ex that i just broke up with wants me back. i found out that he was cheating with multipule females including a 32 year old. we are both 18. now he is telling me that if we don't get back together he is going to solve all his problems by killing himself. he sent me an e-mail saying that and i just read it but i can't get in contact with him. plus i found someone else. what should i do? never mind my spelling i am crying. : (
2006-12-20 16:58:21 · 8 answers · asked by nates_baby 2 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Astronomy & Space
I agree with most of the posters so far. (You seem to get so many answeres in a matter of just 2 or 3 minutes on this website...)
This guy is a cheater. He has cheated in the past. He will continue to cheat. And, he will eventually find a way to blame it on you because he sounds like a "Control Freak".
Get away from him, Girl!!! He's bad news. I know that you have feelings for him, but he's just going to use you, manipulate you, and eventually control every facet of your life and, make you feel so guilty that everything will be YOUR FAULT. That is not the case because you won't let it be the case, right?!
Get outta there, girl...! And call the cops in case he does something stupid.
There's more fish in the ocean... Good Luck
Mack
Married for 31 years to one woman
2006-12-20 17:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Big Mack 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, tell them what the note said. They will go check on him. If he is okay, he will feel stupid for lying and won't bother you again. If he is not, he will get help. Nothing will happen to you. Otherwise, he is a cheater so don't get your heart broken by him again. Stop crying because he wasn't thinking about you when he cheated. Keep your relationship with your new love and keep the old one out of your life. Good luck and blessed be!
2006-12-21 01:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by LadyMagick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just stay away from him (ur ex), cuz that is wrong what he was doing and then if u were to go back to him he would probably do it again and think nothing of it!!! plus their are so many ppl out there u shouldn't waste ur time on someone like that and go out and find someone that is right for u!!! who knows maybe the guy u said u found just might be the one!!!! so stop crying!! and be glad that u are not with ur ex!!! =)
2006-12-21 01:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by keepingitcool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to kill himself, because if he was he wouldn't tell you. I think he just wants some attention. He must know that you still care about him alot, so this is why he'll try to scare you into thinking he'll kill himself. Stop crying and continue to move on. It's not your fault if he does kill himself.
2006-12-21 09:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jamil S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u r problem is a bit complicated .. jsut be strong dont let u r self fall down face the problem with strong mind ... i think u r confused in u r life dont no wat to do... i will tell u ..u need a true friend who can help u out of this by giving u moral support ... :) just don cry dear .. just take it as a small problem of u r life ... u will be fine.. just be stong and think 100 times before getting back to him... for any further help u can mess me cos i have been throug this problem...
2006-12-21 01:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by silverline_lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your in pain through this.
You need to know how inconsiderate the guy was to tell you what he did. The only thing you can do is direct him to mental help. You can't help him because you are his fixation. Maybe, if you know a friend of his, convince them to check on him alot. Be sure they don't tell him you asked.
Next. Protect yourself. Guys like this tend to be stalkers. If need be, call the police, its what they are there for.
2006-12-21 01:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know you would probably feel guilty if he killed himself,but you have to know it's not your fault.he's not worth it.you are still young.i think he's telling you that coz he wants you to feel scared and get back together with him. call the cops,just in case.girl,tell him don't go crying back to you,it's his problem and it doesn't involve you.if he still insist to kill himself,THEN SO BE IT.
2006-12-21 05:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by silverwater92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that situation is jus bad...
I say that if u know him well enough, you'll know whether he'll really kill himself or not, THEN decide what to do_
2006-12-21 01:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jonathan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋