We barely do the F*** deal any more... we both work long hours I make awsome money so does she... We still deeply love each other...but the Sexual side is going down hill fast.Please need som very serious answer here preferbly from you ladies out there.
2006-12-20 16:57:26 · 11 answers · asked by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to lovinmynapesman's my work is of an hour and by the time i get home she is gone and the same for her.
2006-12-20 19:14:03 · update #1
we are talking both of us combined make over 300000
2006-12-20 19:27:53 · update #2
Can you mess around in the morning when you are both rested? On nights when hubby and I are exhausted, we usually end up starting something when the alarm goes off. Of course, you have to make it quick so you can get to your day, but at least you will be getting some! ;-)
If you don't want to do that, then pamper her a little. Get home early and either make dinner or at least pick up some carryout and have it on nice plates on the table. Have some candlelight or whatever. If you are making dinner for her, and it is going to be awhile, then draw a bubble bath for her and have the lights in the bathroom turned out and several candle lit with some nice, soft music in the background. Let her relax in the tub for 20 minutes or so and then both of you come to the dinner table in your silk robes (you make good money, so if you don't have them, buy them as a treat...they are WELL worth the investment!!) I promise things will end up the way you want!!
2006-12-20 17:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Surely u get some time off, how about a weekend getaway, if it`s only to check in to a fine hotel, have dinner, go dancing, maybe a little champagne to top off the night, then go to ur room and let nature take its course. If, as u say, ur deeply in love, the next step is simple, take her in ur arms, kiss her deeply, tell her u love her and before u know it, her dress will be on the floor and u`ll both be on the bed doing what u did before work became ur priority. Have a delightful evening pleasing one another.
2006-12-20 17:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both are working too much and need to take a break. Go away for the weekend. Get a nice motel with a hot tub and relax. Go down to the bar, have a few drinks, do some dancing and leave all of your cares at home.Take no cell phones. This will be your time and nobody else.
2006-12-20 17:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by cm f 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WELL I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO THE SAME WONDERFUL MAN FOR 29YRS AND KNOW TOOO WELL THAT WORK KIDS AND OTHER STUFF CAN MAKE IT WERE YOU JUST DONT HAVE TIME FOR MAKING LOVE BUT IF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER THEN YOU WILL PUT FORTH THE EFFORT TO FIND THE TIME GET UP AN HR EARLIER TAKE WEEKEND TRIPS GET A BABY SITT ER AND JUST STAY HOME DONT ANSWER THE PHONE AFTER A CERTAIN TIME NEVER LET ANTHING OR ANY ONE GET BEWEEN THE TWO OF YOU NOW WE ARENT S TIRED AND OUR KIDS ARE GROWN AND OUR LOVE LIFE IS AWSOME
2006-12-20 17:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
long hours huh? i think a little get away would be very nice no tvs no phones no interuptions, a romantic dinner are lunch some nice background music and i think everything else will fall into place
2006-12-20 17:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is a web site that I have found, that has some great ideas. It is www.lovingyou.com. It also has a online store with all kinds of stuff to help you. I hope this helps. Good luck. Let me know if it helps.
2006-12-20 17:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by acestjohn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make sure to make time for her. and at least once a week go out to some were nice together. be romantic, (candles, bath, rose petals, music etc...) or go to a sex store and get a sex game to play ( Lust) is a fun one. just make sure she knows that you love her always and forever.
2006-12-20 17:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by sexy mama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well I'd advice you to spend more time with her, and everything will be fine, what she need is more affection and love, try to give the max time you can be with her...
2006-12-20 17:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Agent_Double 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My hubby loves lingerie...you could buy several different outfits and surprise him with them.
2006-12-20 17:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
handcuff and a whip
2006-12-20 16:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by louiesteinberg132 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋