An ex-bf has returned and is being very honest with me about who he dated etc., while we were apart. He also flirts a lot with me and keeps wondering why I don't have a steady bf, now that I'm divorced. What's the deal? Does he want me back? Is he just flritatious?
2006-12-20 16:56:28 · 10 answers · asked by crazyloonynice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's testing the waters. Just remember that whatever issues there were between you in the past didn't magically go away. They still need to be dealt with if you intend to pursue a romantic relationship with him, and I would make sure they are resolved BEFORE getting more involved. Listen to your gut feeling.
2006-12-20 17:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might want you back, probably should stay away, and here's why:
1. He either wants you back, but isnt sure if it's the right thing to do. If he was sure, he would make sure you knew it, and he'd be trying to woo you over the same way he did when he first met you.
or
2. He doesnt want you back. Doesnt want to give you the impression that he wants you back, cuz you might get attached to him, but! He'd love to "mess around" with you and figures if he flirts he might get something with no strings attached.
Unless you can handle no strings type deals, stay away for the sake of your heart. I know, I've been that guy with my ex's. Some were like "hell ya" others got their heart hurt.
2006-12-21 01:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by friz898 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, my advise to you is this yes he wants you back,hes just trying to tell you who he dated in his own way so that if you to do get back together you will already know who he dated why you were apart and also to let you know incase someone else was to tell you but i will give him ny 100%percent ok for being honest and telling you because that shows singhs of truly careing about you and wanting you back,and also maybe because your divorced now he fills as if he can enjoy you and your love better without haveing to worry about you going back to the one you divorced,well i cant tell you what to do and im not going to but it sounds to me like this guy really does care about you and love you a lot but thats a deceision that only you can make so i just hope you make the right choice because its all right there in front of you,well good luck and let me know how it turns out ok and may god bless you in what ever you decide
2006-12-21 01:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by DAVE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the deal is that he wants u bk but b careful cuz if u 2 broke up once it might happen again. but c y u 2 broke up adn decide can u forgive him and let him have a second chance. my best suggestion is to go with what u think. and if u do get bk dont tell the truth on everything cuz he might b trying t oget something. good luck!
2006-12-21 01:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it only mean something, ,
that your ex-bf was maybe guilty and just want to be honest w/ you, , maybe he thought that it is unfair to you if still he will hide that thing to you,, and one more thing is that HE WANT TO BE TRUE TO HIS SELF that even he's the one who committed the mistake he had STILL HAD THAT HUMBLENESS INSIDE HIM nd that is good . . .
2006-12-21 01:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by ai-cee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you back, but then again, him confessing being bad does that make him good? after all, if the devil tells you he is the devil does that make him one of the good guys now?
if it didn't work in the past then it probably will not work again
2006-12-21 01:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had this same type of thing happen to me before. I'd say he wants you back; however, I'd give it a bit more time just so you're sure.
2006-12-21 01:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by Catgul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he wanted you back then he would tell you. Do you want to get back with him? Just remember....we call them Xs for a reason!
2006-12-21 01:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by deezy89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you back. Give it another try...
2006-12-21 00:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by fuzzykiwi05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course! it's kinda sort of being himself and updating his life to you.
2006-12-21 01:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by JEANNET L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋