I with a guy but we havent told anybody. I just found out that my best friend LOVES him. She wants me 2 ask him if he wants 2 get w/ her. I think if I tell her she is going to get really mad.Wat should I do????????????????????????????????
2006-12-20 16:37:31 · 12 answers · asked by blondeie12342 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u should tell her that u love this person that she like and if she get mad shes not ur r best friend.
2006-12-20 16:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get all these undercover relationships. This is why you are supposed to be "spoken for". Your best friend does not LOVE him-she can't even talk to him. What you should do is this- leave him alone anyway because he doesn't like you enough to make your relationship known. Let your friend have him...Save the friendship because you really don't have a future with this dude...Don't take my advice and you'll see later that I was right-and you'll be out a friend and the boyfriend.
2006-12-20 19:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by Val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Umm if you are teenagers there isn't any good way around this... trust me--been there, done that.
All you can do really is to tell her the truth and hope she understands. If she hears it from you she might feel less bad than if she hears if from someone else. Explain why you kept it secret... tell her you had no idea she liked him, etc. If she doesn't understand well maybe she isn't good friend material. If she is a true friend, she will probably come around since you didn't actually do anything to her.
2006-12-20 16:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he feel about your friend. I have a best friend and all through Jr High and High School she loved him - she still loves him and we are now middle aged. I have never told her that he kissed me once and has on more than one occassion wished out loud that I had been married to him. I have never told her any of this - and I never will - She loves him! She is my best friend - Men come and go! Nuff said?!
2006-12-20 16:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, and trust this, good friends are hard to come by. so tell her the truth. second, dont ever get in the middle of a friend and a man unless you want the man for yourself. if she is a good friend she wont be mad for long.
2006-12-20 16:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u guys r going out, she will understand
2006-12-20 16:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her like it is and if she gets mad the to hell with her she is not a true friend.
2006-12-20 16:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, learn proper grammar.
And second, tell her that he's allready taken and that she should leave him alone.
2006-12-20 16:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Tina Shh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see why you haven't told anybody?
2006-12-20 16:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say i am sorry but he is already spoken for.
2006-12-20 16:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋