that my gf wanted a "bigger" guy..I suggested maybe a threesome with my friend "Bob"...he is an ugly guy but very well endowed and a cool dude. She said maybe that would do. Do you think this is a good idea?? A comprimise.
2006-12-20 15:54:09 · 20 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow - I'd be shocked at that question myself - from my fiance - hell no. I would be offended that he wanted to "share" me. If you love this girl - then no, it's not a good idea.
2006-12-20 15:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- her answer about "maybe" means NO because she does not want him- my ex hubby did that to me, picked the guy- it ended up being a horrible experience (the guy left and nothing happened, but was VERY awkward) he held it against me for the rest of the 3 years we were together- since he did me a "favor" forgetting the 3 some with another girl a few months after that incedent.
Either wait until she says "yes I want that" or do not do it at all, do not push her just because you think if you have some control it will make you feel better. If you do not like the situation and are only doing it for her, it is better to not do it at all. if she loves you she will understand.
2006-12-21 00:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never a good idea to bring in a third person to fix a problem that the two of you need to fix. Have you tried going to the "toy" stores and reading up on how to please a woman in bed - yes I won't lie size does matter - but even if it's big will not do the trick - the trick is to make love not just have sex - time, cuddling, sharing are all far more important to a woman. I have been married twice - one small one average and now the one with the largest I have ever seen. The average guy was the best because he could please me and would please me first and himself second. So visit some adult stores (they have strap-ons too.) and research what it is she likes best. Could be a whole new discovery for you both. (I know it woke me up and I was very pleasantly surprised.
2006-12-21 00:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your handle suggests a troll... but just in case, for Internet posterity I'll give this a legitimate answer.
If you are having a threesome you both have to be comfortable with who it is with. You cannot chose the guy. She has to, and you just have to say "yes" or "no" to her choice based on after meeting him if you are comfortable with him. Some people give you the eebie-jeebies, and others are cool folk. In matters of swinging both in the couple should have equal veto power.
I've never been able to peg my wife's "type". Just when I think I know what she'll go for she throws me a curve ball and likes a guy that is the exact opposite.
I don't know for your girlfriend, but for my wife there is more to it than just a penis. It is the whole guy she is having sex with, so it should be her choice of who she is attracted to.
2006-12-21 11:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you gay?
are you going to be with the guy as well?
why not just dump your girlfriend?
she wants a bigger guy then let her find a bigger guy....
if you ain't big enough now,you ain't gonna be big enough next month or the one after that..Is bob going to remain in the picture?
if not kick that chicken out of your life and find a girl who likes weiners instead of georgia hots......no offense dude,just telling it like i see it...If you like guys it's cool,if not start getting used to bobs bob.......
2006-12-21 00:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Digz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not a good idea. if she always wants a bigger guy and she gets a taste of it she may not come back. and, why do you need some a**hole like her for a girlfriend if she even told you this? she may be trying to get out of the relationship by being mean. you can find better and find someone who doesn't care about your size.
2006-12-21 00:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by tahoegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT NOT A GOOD IDEA. BECAUSE WANT SOMEONE ELSE
GET IN THE PICTURE, TRUST ME THING WILL CHANGE.
AND IF SHE WANT A BIGGER GUY THEN SHE NEED TO
BE HONEST WITH YOU. GETTING SOMEONE ELSE TO
DO THE DEED SOUND LIKE A SLAP IN THE FACE TO YOU
DONT YOU THINK. SHE SHOULD WANT YOU REGARDLESS
OF THE SIZE. IF THIS IS WHAT UP WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP,YOU HAVE PROBLEMS BIGGER THEN YOU THINK.IF THIS IS A ISSUE THEN WHAT HAPPEN DOWN THE
ROAD WHEN SHE HAS PROBLEM WITH SOMETHING ELSE
ABOUT YOU.
2006-12-21 00:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever tickles your pickle dude. Different stokes for different people. I would not want to be in your situation but I think I would rather use some toys on her than let my friend have her way with her. But that's your call!
2006-12-20 23:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea if you are wanting a lasting relationship.if a threesome with a bigger member is what will keep her happy, than she wont be around long.
2006-12-21 00:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it haed that you even have to ask a question like that if you are standing on a set of train tracks ans see a traing coming do you have to ask yourself if you should move or not ? get a new girlfriend
2006-12-21 00:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋