Is it wrong of me, to stay in a relatinship, okay iv'e been goin out, with this guy, for two years,but im still in love with my ex boyfriend, so decide to break up, with this guy because, he should have someone, who loves him, and im just not over my ex, so i told him this, and now he's been telling his girlfriend, lies about me and friends, why was i wrong? he has his brother, watch my every move.
2006-12-20 15:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You were not wrong. You were honest with him about your feelings, and being honest is almost never wrong. Since he is now telling lies about you and his brother is watching your every move, you should be glad that you are no longer with him (but since his brother is watching your every move, make sure he is not a stalker).
2006-12-20 15:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right to be honest with him. It's not fair to him or you to stay in a relationship if you're not in love with the person. If you can't work things out with your ex that you love then stay single for awhile until you get over him and are ready for a new relationship. Don't start a relationship simply because you're lonely or on the rebound.
2006-12-21 01:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, at least you instincts told you to break up with him while he's a liar, cheater, and doesn't trust you, that's just mean. I got to give you thumbs up for that one.
2006-12-20 23:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Red Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing but nobody take a break up easy. he will get over it and as for you get your thing straight.
2006-12-21 15:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go on Jerry Springer.
2006-12-21 00:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right...he has to deal with his own problems now.
2006-12-21 00:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were right. it would not be right to be with him, knowing that u r not over ur ex.
2006-12-20 23:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope u were not wrong . ... he will get over it
2006-12-21 17:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by beverhouzen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋