2006-12-20 14:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by da da 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A man that doesn't look at other women is either gay, or good at pretending. Don't take it too personal, if a man only looks (not gawks) at other attractive women. Women dressed to be noticed, (even you) and human nature causes at least a casual glance.
A "gentleman" looks without creating a big, foolish ordeal about it, immature, silly man-boys gawk and act like they've never seen such a sight in their life!
Accept, even acknowledge, that sometimes your husband is looking at others, but remember he always goes to bed with you!
Good luck
2006-12-20 14:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by stretch 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My wife's attitude is, "I don't care where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home". It works both ways. There is no need to be disrespectful of each other. Looking at attractive people is normal. Thank God we have a healthy sex drive. So many people complain about their partners sex drive and find fault with themselves or their partner which is counter-productive. If I look at an attractive woman or my wife looks at an attractive man we both say to each other, "You like that? Wait till we get home and I can take care of you like nobody else". Sometimes we have steamed up the windows in the mall parking lot and we park in the handicapped zone. You are never too old or too handicapped.
2006-12-20 15:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by andywho2006 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No because I know he will look at them when I am not around. There are an awful lot of attractive women everywhere. I used to get jealous but he is with me. If one walks across the street I don't mind if his eyes follow her. I think it is natural to look at someone who looks nice. I mean, women look at other women. If we didn't how would we know what the styles are? That is how we keep up on the hairstyles and clothes.
2006-12-20 14:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i get jealous too. But if its just a quick look and no comment thats fine..It when you guys per for to long and make so dam comment about it we hate. So keep it to your self or when you are with the boys eh. If we kept making comments all night long when we were out with you like...**** hes hot,,what a babe,like to get my legs around him...you would be pretty shitted about it..Thanks..
2006-12-20 17:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by little donsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better be. In being your partner's girl, you have accepted the opportunity/obligation of training him. Let him know how much it hurts you. Then let him know again...and again. Don't try the old method of returning the favor. That only shows you can be as low as he is. You want to elevate.
2006-12-20 15:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i am the one who is pointing out the really hot women, i am not gay or bi, but i think that god gave us eyes for a reason and made beautiful people so why not look, if you are happy with who you are then it shouldn't matter, is he with you? does he not come home with you? aren't you the one he tells he love too? well the shut up women and deal with it, because we all know that women look and men the same way men look at women.
2006-12-20 16:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by justalilbirdie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if he just looks, but when he talks to them real close and they touch his shoulder and he touches the small of their back I do. I am working on it. Jealously comes out of insecurity.
2006-12-20 15:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't myself . I think it is human nature to look at the opposite sex man or woman
2006-12-20 14:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by k®ì§ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No - he may be married, but he's not dead. And I'd be miffed if he said I couldn't look at other guys.
"Looking at" is not the same as "wanting", nor is it the same as "planning to do something with".
2006-12-20 14:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What pisses me off or irritates me is when they do it in front of you. I feel that is so disrespectful. Men are going to be men, but show some f u c k i n respect. What I did do was stare a man up and down in front of my husband, I even carried an entire conversation on with him
2006-12-20 14:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋