Here's the thing..First of all he is 16 years older than me and I am totally in Love with him,we are expecting our first child together.But recently had a myspace account.Which includes our love life history,pictures of us.Then a few of my friends from High school happened to look me up..and I have changed alot since High school and they seemed impressed..so they talked alittle SMACK and i joked along with them..One comment was left about my ***,and The one I called my boy and ended a conversation with "your Girl" but to me being not so long ago out of high school,I didn't think anything about it and thought it was harmless.But however it turns out that he thinks I have been cheating with these guys and it has caused alot of problems.I have tried to reassure him that it wasn't meant like that,but I really don't know what else to do I deleted my account and said i wouldn't even speak to these guys again.But that isn't enough for him.I don't know what else to do?? How can I help things?
2006-12-20 14:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by crazyinlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He has had a history with unfaithful women,and he is a truck driver and he is gone alot.But I want things to work out,but I don't know he brings it up everyday,I tell him nothing happened and nothing was going to happen,but he acts so "hurt,and sad" but My God I didn't cheat or anything I was just being childish,and I told him if he couldn't trust me then he didn't need me,but we are having a baby and we both have vhildren from previous marriages and we know how that goes...But I am going insane trying to keep him happy about it and reassured what am i suppose to do??
2006-12-20 14:43:54 · update #1
OMG, I swear, myspace is the new relationship argument. Now, you said that your mate is 16 years older than you, but do not mention how long you two have been together. Either way, he should trust you. If he never blasted off at you like this over something this little and trivial, I would say the pregnancy is what has him antsy. The extra pressure might cause doubts and all other types of thoughts in his head as he accesses his life and you guys life together. I think this will pass and its just a touchy time being that you guys are expecting a child and all.
Either way, reassure him that you are there for him and wanted to make something beautiful with him you two care share for a lifetime and thats your child. Even if you had a past with these guys, tell you man he is your future and thats all that matters.
2006-12-20 14:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dance Diva 88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you say you love him and love makes us blind, but from the sounds of it, he's a controlling jealous @sshole. You've done all you can, and trust me because I've been with guys like this before. This won't be the last time he will accuse you of cheating.
2006-12-20 14:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes insecure about himself. theres really nothing you can do to change his thought its something hes gonna half to realize himself. If he cant learn to trust you after all the years u guys have been together then he needs to take alook at himself. I know because i was that way with my girlfriend. i put her through alot and regret every minute of it today.
2006-12-20 14:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by kyle L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well personally i think if he doesnt trust you enough to beleive you then it isn't going to work out very well. you just cant have a relationship with out trust and well im just not seeing it but for your childs sake i hope i am wrong
2006-12-20 14:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by babyjuggalette1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl I feel you on that...I went threw something similar...I just deleted the people that he felt uncomfortable with (but they were not close friends like yours ) and make sure that I approved comments that came on my page , cause some men can send some nasty ones that can cause him to wonder
2006-12-20 14:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he needs to grow up and check his ego at the door. Do not put up with his behavior...it is emotionally controlling...
2006-12-20 14:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats y i hate myspace, but i gotta have one lol, its a neccesary evil or somethin like that lol
2006-12-20 14:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat me out now
2006-12-20 15:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does'nt trust you then he's not right for you!
2006-12-20 14:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by gloangel93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋