well...today I was so happy and excited because tomorrow is my day off from everyhting!! school and work..after so much time!!! and me and my bf were planning to see each other all day!!!! but 10mins ago the good compassionate neigbor's daugther came to ask me if i could babysit her tomorrow...they are really good people and the times I've babysit her the mom paid me really good..plus she lends me college books and helps me with homeworks etc...I feel so guilty but I also want to have a little rest..what should I do? pleaseee!!!!!
2006-12-20 14:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmm...... Well, you could babysit for them after informing your boyfriend, and then make it up to him by using the money earned to go some place nice the next time you get a day off from everything. Time between you and your boyfriend are probably sacred moments, but its always nice to have money. (Don't tell that last line to him)
2006-12-20 14:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you babystting at her house or yours?? If it's yours, maybe you can ask your bf to join you. If you can't, then go for the babysitting anyway...since you said that you are feeling guilty about it, then you won't have much fun if you were to go out with your boyfriend...guilt can be a haunting pain... talk to your bf, he'll understand...besides I'm sure there will be other opportunities to be with him another time right....... Do the right thing girl....
2006-12-20 14:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Cream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, we will do just about anything to get inside our girlfriend's.... room. Well, you know what I'm saying.
If you really like this guy -- and he really likes you -- you can make other arrangements. If he pressures you, then he only wants what he wants. It's a win-win situation for you: if he's cool with you babysitting, he's worth your time. If he's not cool with it, at least you made money.
2006-12-20 14:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by George B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say sorry I have plans But honestly I think you owe this women big time college books cost a lot not to mention the help.
2006-12-20 14:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babysit, sounds like you owe them a little. When you have kids there is no resting, she probably needs the break more than you do.
2006-12-20 14:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Dizzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to say no and not feel guilty about it. You were already looking forward to spending the day with your boy friend. Don't change plans.
2006-12-20 14:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think you should have your day off! But, if the little munchkin isnt much trouble then u 2 culd relax 2gether!
2006-12-20 14:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should help your neighbor babysit. If they always help yu out, why should you let them down? You boyfriend should understand if he really wants to be with you.
2006-12-20 14:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it. You can rest another day. You never know when you might need a favor.
2006-12-20 14:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by applecrisp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry im busy i promise ill baby sit you next time!
2006-12-20 14:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋