why am i such a failure?

Question

is it genetic

Answer 1

I haven't a clue !

Answer 2

There is nothing genetic about failure dear Heart. This is the result of negative thinking, lack of self-worth and ambition. No-one is a complete failure. You may feel this way because you did not succeed in something but if you really think about all the aspects and circumstances you might see and realize that sometimes, there are outside influences on what we plan to do. And if you failed once at something, there is no law that says you can't try again! Right?

Please don't be so hard on yourself! I do not know you but I am certain you've got wonderful ideas and all you need is to trust yourself a little more to obtain success in whatever you failed

Answer 3

let me tell you something, it is not genetic, it has to do more with your train of though.....here is how it goes and I'm going to use this as an example, before a test if you watch or think about something that will negatively effect you then you will certainly do bad, but if you reinforce yourself with positive thoughts than you have a better chance of doing better on the test than if you were thinking negatively.........also you must be prepared before you attempt something new or w/e. I'm just saying this because you cant go into a battle with a plastic sword, you need to be well prepared and ready to do.......no one is perfect the first time they do something, sooooo you have to get ready. don't get discouraged if you fail, and here is a good example.......sense its the holiday season and what not you will probably be busy, but take it from me, when you get some free time pick up some literature on Lincoln, you know the president.......he failed at so many things before he became president that its not even funny, everything that he tried, he failed at, and then at the age of 50 or whatever he runs for president, probably not fearing that he will lose and he WINS. so read up on him, be prepared for war and expect the worst, and if you believe in what your doing and you put your heart and soul into it then nothing will be able to stop you, so pick up your head, look ahead and go for it

Answer 4

failure is a state of mind! ppl only think they are failures if they look at it that way!! i once got rejected by a girl that was incredibly beautiful.... i felt so depressed for a long time.... but one day i walked back to school and the boyfriend she got with after rejecting me... she cheated on!!!... i realized, that i rather have been rejected, then cheated on...failure only has that title if you give it that title!!!

Answer 5

It may be genetic, who knows.
But if I know one thing for sure, it's up to you to get out there and change your life for the better.
You can be successful if you work hard at it.
Take little steps and before you know it, you'll be where you want to be!

Answer 6

Move over and leave some room for me, also a failure.

Answer 7

Bah humbug Mr. Grinch.

Answer 8

Blaming genetics is just an excuse, do you lack ambition?

Answer 9

You need to ask yourself that question. Or ask you best friend. Don't ask everyone, it will make you more a failure.

Answer 10

I'm no good at a lot of things. Don't worry, just do what you can do for now. I hope it goes better for you.

Answer 11

you are what you think you are.
failure is not genetic, but it can be hereditary ie you can inherit lots of your parents crap if you're not careful.