a friend of mine had a dream?

Question

It was a bright sunny day ,his father and a few friends were there. he dove out into the water.He could see the underwater life swimming around him.Then all of a sudden the wheather changed,the water became rough and it was hard for him to swim and stay a flot.His father came out in a boat and threw him a line,but he was holdingg onto a rock and wouldnt reach for it.He made it to shore on his own,but when he looked around everything seemed the same ,but the brightness of the day had vanished and was dim...This dream ended and another began....now he was in a building with his farther,and his father became his uncle(fathers brother) he went to the window and looked over the ledge.There were others in the room,anyway he went out to the ledge and jumped,falling,then he woke up.He asked me for an interpetation,Im asking you.I have my thoughts .I want to see if anyones thoughts are similar to mine.I asked him if I could put it on line,he said yes,he will probaly read the answer himself.

Answer 1

Looks like there are something going on with his father in terms of relationship

#1 threw him a line, holding rock = support

#2 Father becomes his uncle = trust changed
Jumped and falling = rejection

The way I see it, he is seeking for some sort of approval from his father. There may be something going on that his father does not like his decision making and even though he is looking for support from his father. Somehow he turns away from him. Projecting him as uncle is a shift of trust and jumping and falling could mean he feels rejected in some way. This dream is basically about how he feels about the support or words from his father. He may be into some sort of argument or difference in terms of decision making with his father.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Or... he feels the need to break away from the security his father represents (become more independent and his own man) and is feeling some sorrow about it.