Cross dressing What do girls really think about it?

Question

I'm a 34 year old straight male cross dresser and would really like to know what girls think of it. Would you ever date someone who did this?

I have to add that I don't want to be a girl, I just like to dress like one now and then. I think part of it is being able to change my appearance, the feel of dressing like a woman and even the trial and error of make-up. It all part of the fun for me at least.

Yes I know I'm straight. Have been to gay clubs and there is really no attraction at all for me.

I have told both of my very long term girlfriends about this with one being fine and even encouraging it while the other just didn't want to know. She travelled a bit and was totally aware of what I got up to when she was away.

Unfortunatly it was it was my cross dressing that forced us to break a few months ago because I could no longer ignore it and not be the person I really am. We are still very good friends.

Answer 1

good for you. i think cross dressing is a nice turn on. i would defiantly go out with a cross dresser. i think they are the coolest people in the world.

Answer 2

I would never date someone who did but you have to think, it's possible that people do it as a secret life when their girlfriends dont even know. (By the way, are you sure you're straight?) But I dont think theres anything wrong with it even though the bible says it's wrong. Your question made me think of Gwen Araujo. See I might of had a negative opinion about it before seeing that but that was a while ago and I dont know. Who am I to judge anyway? Plus I have a son, he's only 3 but if he felt on the inside that he was meant to be a girl, when he grows up, and dressed like one, I'd need to be there for him and support him as his mother. I know society wouldn't be so easy on him which would kill me so I dont judge because I wouldn't want anyone judging him. Different things suit different people. We need to be more accepting of that fact.

Answer 3

Well you've kind of answered your own question by your own experience. Out of two past girlfriends one was okay with it and one was not. Some women are really turned on by it.

As for me personally... helping my friends cross-dress, sure. Being out in public while they're in women's clothes. No problem. But I will not date a guy who looks better in a dress than I do! :)

Answer 4

You feel a NEED to cross dress. When you do then your brain releases a series of neurotransmitters which give you the sensation of well-being, pleasure, self-gratification, and self-identity - - its a "high". Unfortunately, these neurotransmitters are the same chemicals associated with addiction pattern responses. You can't stop it. If you purge yourself, you only return, often worse than before.

If you let it take you over, then you will be trying harder and harder to achieve a higher "high". You will work hard at making yourself into a passable female. You will eventually create an ultra feminine alter-ego. You will give "her" a name. And you will eventually fall in love with your alter-ego.

If you get married, then your wife will complain that she feels like your "second" love. Your children will be taught to keep "daddy's secret" or risk the ridicule of your friends. When you get into your 40's you will have an identity crisis. You will want to take greater risks with your cross dressing. You will consider surgery or other means of looking more feminine. You will consider leaving your wife and family to pursue your first love.

Cross dressing will do you no favors. You will have to gain some control over it or it will control you.

Answer 5

I don't know what the other girls think, but I happen to find a straight guy wearing a long black skirt very sexy. And as far as other female articles of clothing, I could care less it's just clothing.

Answer 6

I've met many girls over the years that love crossdressing & were more than willing to dress me up as a girl. Here's a few...

I had one girlfriend that said I'd make a pretty girl, I let her dress me up. One Halloween she had to work 2nd shift & I worked with her, but I wore her uniform & she wore mine. But she made sure the uniform I was wearing was really tight & the skirt was very short & I loved the 4" pink pumps I had to wear too. After work we changed & went bar hopping.

My apartment manager was telling me how she dressed a guy up for Halloween & I asked how she did it, then she said she show me if I wanted to give it a try, I did & let her dress me up.

I used to let my girlfriend (now my wife) practice her make-up lessons on me & that led to her dressing me up as a girl.

This office manager I know was teasing a co-worker who was checking her out & said I can get you a pair of heels in your size if you like them. He walked away embarrased, but she caught me smiling & asked what I was smiling about. I said, I'd love a pair of those in my size. We went to this adult store & got a pair in my size, along with lingerie, a dress & a few other things in my size.

This receptionist I see alot had her eye make-up done incredible & I told her that her eyes looked lovely. Then she said it was just the make-up & that my eyes could look just as good too. After work I met her back at her office just like we planned. And she was right, my eyes did look just as incredible as her eyes looked. I said now all I need is something to wear & I'd look like a woman too. She said that she might have something in my size at her place & she did.

Answer 7

No, I am sorry but I would never date a cross dresser. I think it's weird. And I am sorry because I don't mean to offend you. But you will find that one wild girl at some bar that likes you for who your are, I guess. ; )

Answer 8

If you look like that guy from the Kids In The Hall and News Radio in drag, my thoughts are: YOWZA!

But it is the kind of admiration that I can only sustain from afar. If the dress came off, I would need therapy.

But there are lots of womenou there who find it sexy, even so that they would want to date.

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Be well.

Answer 9

Never, I can't speak for everyone else, but I like a real man, not someone who wants to try on my new dress.

Answer 10

I wouldn't announce this on the first 10 dates. Someone will really have to love you to accept that.