okay, me and my best friend have been fighting. she ditched me to be more popular. her name is carlie and she ditched me for a gilr named rylee. well i have a myspace and so does rylee. rylee was emailing me and being nice. so i was nice back. and i know this is bad but i know carlies email password and i went into her email and i saw emails from rylee. i looked and carlie was mad at rylee for talking to me. and rylee said " it doesnt matter, i deleted her off my friends list anyway". YEAH RIGHT. i deleted rylee from mine. i really want to say something but i dont know if i should or what i should say. help?
-hetty♥
2006-12-20 13:24:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
u know, if they are going to act like bitches and sluts then forget them. Carlie is your bff, so i think you should try to work it out. if she does not want to then go with your crush(i'm sure he will probably date you) and just leave the friendship. if she want s to be like Rylee and dress like her and go to dance like that, then oh well. hope this helped.
2006-12-20 13:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girl, I know this may be hard, but you need to say "to hell with Carlie and Rylee". Neither one seem to be friends. Save yourself some heartache and stress and find another friend, a true friend. I know it's hard, crap like that went on constantly when I was in high school and I wouldn't do anything to ever go back to that time in my life. Girls were jealous of me, and all the boys back then just wanted one thing. Keep your head on straight, think before you act, and don't do anything you'll regret later.. All of this will be over soon and those that hurt you now will end up regretting it, while you are enjoying life with your true friends.. Good luck and have a Merry Christmas!
2006-12-22 13:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange thing about being less than popular. Those who matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter.
Don't waste any more time on these catty b****es. You'll meet these gossipy backstabbers at every stage of life, and if you let them get to you, you'll die from the stress before you're 30. Ignore them, and let them see you being happy hanging out with your other friends. Living well is the best revenge.
I'm 27 years old, and just recently had to remove myself from one of these silly popularity cliques. Just let it roll off your back and know that there are more worthwhile people out there to hang out with. If it's any consolation, a friend who would ditch you to be more popular is going to be pretty miserable in the long run.
2006-12-21 04:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Emmy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. Carlie is being unecessarily mean and you don't have to put up with it. I know it's sad to move on sometimes, and put friendships behind you, but if that's what you've got to do, do it. Reach out to new people and soon enough you'll not be worrying about Carlie and Rylee.
2006-12-20 21:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by Shars 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is two ways to go about this, you can say something and someone might get mad at you, but if they already are who cares. or you can keep saying nothing and know the truth and cause internal conflicts which can make you miserable. i have always found the direct approach is best. Just ask what the problem is and see what you get for your answer. But obviously if they are acting this way they are not your friends anyway.
2006-12-20 21:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by babyfireangel03 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
awe hun that sh!ts tough... try and talk to carlie... if she doesnt wanna peace sh!t out then its time to find a new better best friend... I use to be freinds with a girl who did the exact same thing... She moved on up in popularity till she hit the top and was a total byotch to all her friends, she told one girl that she wouldnt be friends with her until she died her hair brown... She didnt start out that mean but ended up that mean... Now she has no friends... If your friend keeps acting like that, she wont have any friends in a couple years, just watch and until then, move on...
BUT before you decide to move on, try and peace sh!t out... is it possible you made her mad? or there was a misunderstanding?
2006-12-21 00:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your best friend is fighting, and this is still going on, then she is not your best friend. Try a more peaceful approach, like meeting them and talking out the problem. Appologies are nice too. Please do not sacrifice your friendship over apetty argument!
2006-12-20 21:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some new friends and forget the old ones
2006-12-21 01:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ignore both of them. if you keep talking to them then they will have more fun at your expense! Just go with th eflow and start smaking new friens. If either one of them try talking to you , just ignore them! Trust me you seem to be avery nice person who doesn't deserve to get hurt> Screw them and don't let little things like tis bother you and i garentee that u will feel better!!!!!
2006-12-20 21:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget them. They don't want to be friends with you then fine go find you some new friends.
2006-12-21 12:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by Baby G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋