2006-12-20 13:23:17 · 20 answers · asked by lampie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, don't go for a rebound just because you are used to a certain routine (having a warm body next to you). Mourn the loss, even if it's a good break-up. Put closure on it. Enjoy the freedom. Do things for yourself. Surround yourselves with your friends/family. Good luck to you.
2006-12-20 13:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do like I do ( recently divorced thirtysomething myself)..Enjoy yourself, pamper yourself. Do the things that you wanted to do but did not have the time to. If you have children, spend quality time with them. I spend time with my family and close friends, relaxing at home, taking a drive, just enjoying the pleasure of doing things different.
2006-12-20 15:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time for yourself and enjoy. Get to know yourself and how independed you can be. Don't go looking right away for a new relationship let it come naturally when the time is right. In the meantime, pamper yourself and enjoy. IF you do have kids, remember your divorced your spouse not your kids. Spend lots of time with them. Good luck
2006-12-20 13:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by cheoli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take time to be with yourself and really get to know yourself. Don't just jump right back in to another relationship. Take time for yourself and do the fun things you didn't do while you were married. Find an activity that you like to do and get out there and enjoy life. Don't sit around and mope about it. Merry Christmas to you and I wish you a blessed New Year.
2006-12-20 13:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in the prime of your life, enjoy it. Live life on your terms. Take a vacation or do something you've alway wanted to do that marriage kept you from doing. Don't force any new relationships. You have the experience of your last relationship, use it to see the red flags early on in any new romance. Only you know what you really want, don't settle for less.
2006-12-20 14:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by lifeizgud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the desire to learn, change, and grow stronger from a painful experience instantly connects u to a positive energy system that will help u weather the storm and give u control over your life. be good to yourself, get to know yourself before going into another relationship.
2006-12-20 13:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. If you're a female, e-mail me. I'm not much older at 43. My best advice is to sit back and re-focus. Think about what you want and all that stuff.
2006-12-20 13:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun and enjoy life....relax and things should fall into place...I am still enjoying the single life and dont plan on marrying again_
2006-12-20 13:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in your prime go uot and enjoy life and don't jump on the frist thing that comes along.you don' want too the samething twice......good luck baby
2006-12-21 00:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by bigpopi@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a good time, go out and meet new people and live every day like it where your last
2006-12-20 13:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋