Let's say my daughter is 16 years old and wants to get married to this guy who is 23 and she doesn't like school. She just wants to be a housewife, so if I told her that if she drops out and takes care of her little brother for 2 years (so I don't have to pay daycare), she can marry him. Would I be wrong? Please be serious with your answers.
2006-12-20 13:15:43 · 17 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That is sooooooo wrong!!!! Stealing a kids childhood and future!!!!!
2006-12-20 13:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Firefighters Wife 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is this a for real question????
No do not let her drop out of school. She will miss those Junior Senior year memories that can never be made up.
If they are willing to wait 2 years great if not she can't get married until she is 18 anyways. At least in Pa.
In most schools you can cram all your classes in the morning and have afternoons off, just so you still get all the credits you need to graduate. Check into that. A high School diploma is important.
Good Luck and I hope you make the wisest decision.
2006-12-20 21:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea will you are at it why don't you let her marry a 30 year old. I know age doesn't matter, but right know she is to young and it seems like she doesn't really know what she is doing. This guy is 6 years older than she is and could be manipulating her. Come on dude you gotta put the pieces of the puzzle together. Don't let her drop out of school and i say you have a talk with this 23 year old guy. Personally i would smash his face into a thousand little pieces.
2006-12-20 21:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is so wrong in so many ways. First of all why do you let your 16 year old daughter date a man that is 23!! He is an adult and can be jailed for that ! Second-an education is the most important thing that you can do for both of your children, even housewives need to be educated!! This is so sad!
2006-12-20 21:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DEAD WRONG!! Education is the most important thing in life.... no education=no job=no money..... you dont want your daughter ending up a poor housewife..... and this pervert 23 yr old wanting a 16 yr old is disgusting and illeagal!!! Your daughter should get a good career before she thinks of marrying and having kids. Im dead seriuos!!
2006-12-20 21:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would be best if she was home schooled during those 2 years because at 16 she definitely is way to young to be thinking of marriage. I would insist on her getting her education first. Even being just a house wife she still should have an education. Good luck to you both.
2006-12-20 21:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Fuzzy Bottoms 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be fighting the 23 year old off! She needs to continue with her education. PERIOD! She is still in need of your direction. She should stop seeing this "Man", stay in school and not be responsible for her sibling (which could cause still other problems like resentment).
2006-12-20 21:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would at least make her get her GED first before anything.I understand she's in-love and wants to marry but you know as well as i do that young relations dont last a life time,so do her a favor and make her get the GED.Then you both can be happy!
2006-12-20 21:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by UseMyAnswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think she should finish school!!!, what if that guy leaves her what will she do then, LIVE WITH YOU!!!, about babysitting thats cool cuz she'll learn responsability!!
Tell her to finish school [get her diploma] and then she'll figure it out for herself...
PLEASE DON'T LET HER BE A HIGH SCHOOL DROPOUT!!! I'TS O.K. IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GO TO COLLEGE BUT ALMOST ALL THE JOBS YOU HAVE TO HAVE A DIPLOMA, BECAUSE IF SHE AND THAT GUY DON'T WORK OUT SHE'LL HAVE TO WORK!!!
2006-12-20 21:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by rogue_roque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you and the 23 year old need to be locked up. Second she needs to stay in school and end up smarter then her parent.
2006-12-20 21:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by ngo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'll pretend youre being serious. what happens if she later changes her mind? shes young and theres no way for her to completely know what she wants in life yet. let her graduate from highschool at least. so that way if she changes her mind she can just go off to college and not have to worry about her highschool diploma. your her father you should know whats best for her. you know what your asking is wrong. otherwise you wouldnt ask it. don't deprive her of an education. she'll regret it later.
2006-12-20 21:19:43 · answer #11 · answered by HeNRY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋