I was at the return counter at the PC store and every time I looked over there was this girl who kept looking at me. She had a friend and I think I heard her say to her friend that I was gay. (I think my hair and long fingernails gave me away.... or my low cut stylish jeans with my lil blue suede sneakers?)
I didn't mind it at all. I liked the fact she could tell I'm gay (technically bi). Why did I feel this way?
Realize. Only 6 months ago I was terrified of coming out. Before no one in a million years ever pegged me for gay or bi. But then again, I always sported a crew cut and wore sloppy clothes.
2006-12-20 13:01:23 · 7 answers · asked by kickbutt 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No. Not from San Francisco. Isn't that a little cliche?
I'd move there if I could though. The night life there has to be insane.
2006-12-20 13:07:46 · update #1
gretphemelger
That could be it. I'm sending out little signals with my appearance and when someone figured it out it was like winning a prize.
That and I feel like I'm part of the cool club. :)
2006-12-20 13:26:45 · update #2
Maybe you enjoy the fact that you are being recognised as being gay because you feel more comfortable with that title and prefer it over people thinking you are straight.
Maybe you are also happy that someone identified you that way whereas everyone didn't seem to have a clue. Or is it that someone recognised what your appearance was about hehe
2006-12-20 13:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know what to say other than that some people are just easy to spot as that. I am straight and i am not gonna judge whether i have been that way or not. I lost interest in the homosexual area of my life between age 15 to 20. All i can tell you is that, I use to be Bi more than Gay because i still liked women. I will always love women. There have been times i have thought of my friend Nick in a gay way. I have day dreamed about him and me making love many times and i have even thought at times about going back to homosexuality. But i enjoy being a christian and i do not wanna be that way any more. I even had a tiny chrush on him and i am enjoying the straight life. i won't judge and i know it is a suprise from a christian. I would love to have gay and straight friends as long as i wasn't involved or invited into their sexual life.
2006-12-20 13:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your growing, and you are finally comfortable with the fact that you're Gay/BI-
Next time just say Bi- maybe she's into it?
2006-12-20 13:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are hanging on to some of your manliness and you really wanted to get with her. Are you from san fransisco
2006-12-20 13:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Smile in the shadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want to be recognized for what you are. I guess you could say that is normal.
2006-12-20 13:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you forget to take that fake dildo out of your azz again?
2006-12-20 15:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by kida182001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm....ok?
2006-12-20 13:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by gH3Tt0o PrInCesS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋