I will meet this man face to face though we just chat online in the past. Need your suggestions hurrily. Thank

Question

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter

Answer 1

Make sure you guys meet in a place where there are alot of people.Some guys who seem nice are not.If you have a bad feeling about something go with that gut feeling.Other than that,be safe and have fun.Make sure you tell a family or friend where you will be.

Answer 2

Be very careful. I would suggest you double dated the first few times and then decide to go it alone. maybe have a neighbor keep tabs on you. I would also ask "how far"
he is traveling to see you, if it's very far i would be leary and "definetely" double date. A good idea to have "handy" pepper spray also. It's a "turkey shoot" for you, i'm not saying he is a bad man at all, it's just that all men are driven by sex to one degree or the other and have a dark side common to all men. I know a girl who just recovered from her "online date" about three weeks ago, it wasn't please. I'll say a prayer for you and hope all is as it "seems" to be but 30% on the net are not who they say they are. I don't mean to scare you "but" just use some common sense.

Answer 3

if this is the first time u are meeting u dont want to be embarrassed. since u dont know what he looks like he may be ugly as most on the internet are ugly.

so meet him in private. the woods are a good place. find a park that is closed, go late at night, so u know u wont be bothered by any other people.

Answer 4

I'd say, if you trust your gut, go meet him. Meet in a pulic place, and so on after the first date. If the chemistry and comfort is still there, date him. I meet two very rewarding people online. My Pakistani friend Usman, and now my boyfriend Malik who is Indian. Good Luck!




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Answer 5

meet in a public place, one where theres alot of human foot traffic, like in a restaurant. early evening mand make sure your means of transportation are planned in advance. and this early in the relationship that you keep your address private and personal.


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Answer 6

I would suggest you see as many pics of him as possible webcam prefered..... to make sure its really him. also get him to ring you up so you have his number. if you really want to met him make sure people know were your going, and always met in public places for first couple of times. beter to be safe then sorry. people can be the nicest friendliest people in the world online, but you never know who they might be in real life. slo if you do met him and something doesnt feel right to you make your excuse and leave.

Answer 7

Go for it!! Ive met alot of great people online, and ive never regretted meeting them face to face. Just be carefull thats all.

Answer 8

Take care, meet in a public place, do something casual with a polite escape hatch if it is dnot comfortable.

Answer 9

i met my bf of 4 years online...we talked for a while before meeting. then we went to dinner, the movies, pool, and bowling..we did alot, but go to dinner..meet there and then you can chat and eat. if things arent going well, just eat.

Answer 10

Go w/some friends. Dont go alone go into like a park w/some ppl in it.. Who noes wut he will do.. Just remember not 2 go alone and not into very quiet places tht way u will stay safe and hve fun