I need to know how to build myself confident enough for I want be afraid to talk to boys how can I build myself confident to the point where when I walk in a room I'll think Im on of the beautiful ones there what things can I do to make me feel that way.
2006-12-20 12:09:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You are every bit as special as any person out there. We are all unique in our own ways..........and that's what makes you so special; you are the only you there is. No one else can be you, and you can't be anyone else..........so be the best you that you can be..
Look in a mirror several times a day and say to yourself out loud, with confidence, "I AM SPECIAL! I AM BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT! I LOVE MEETING PEOPLE! PEOPLE WANT TO GET TO KNOW ME!"
It will feel pretty goofy at first, but just do it, and keep doing it, and before you know it you will feel your self confidence begin to grow. Be sure to put on a cheerful attitude and a big smile, and feel your enthusiasm when you talk to yourself in the mirror.
There is a book that I would recommend everyone read.............and whose who read it and apply it when they are young are the really lucky ones, because it can give you a powerful start in life. It is "The Power of Positive Thinking" by Norman Vincent Peale. Read it and do what it says, and you will be a very positive, confident person who can accomplish ANYTHING!
Walk tall with your head held high, and put on a smile! Now go get em =)
2006-12-20 12:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell yourself every day that you are good enough just the way you are, that you are beautifull inside and out...it's called positive self talk. make a list of the things that make you special or things that you are good at....these will build your self esteem. talk to some guys, just be their friend and then you will be more comfortable talking to males.
2006-12-20 12:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by PhoenixRising 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a childe of God and first you need to be comfortable with yourself and who you are.
don't worry about what others think of you , do what you think is right.
don't think "boys" , but a fellow human being with a different spare part.
be yourself and enjoy yourself.
God bless,
gabe
2006-12-20 12:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by gabegm1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should realize you don't need to be beautiful to have confidence.
Confidence comes from practice and experience.
2006-12-20 12:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right side: is stupid will believe anything-left side: is defensive and will refute the best knowledge if it is upset
2006-12-20 12:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell yourself u can do it...
2006-12-20 12:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋