2006-12-20 11:56:49 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know love is the only reason to get married, that's what I want to marry for. I am just curious why most women marry guys for. I believe women mostly marry for money.
2006-12-20 12:24:16 · update #1
How about for someone with strength of character that will stand by me no matter what? Been on the verge of bankruptcy, we stuck together. Looks fade with age, we're still together. Love, need plenty of it. It has to go both ways. There's no loving someone who doesn't love back. When the rest of the world is falling apart I can count on my husband.
2006-12-20 12:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well looks are the first thing that attract you to someone, so they have to be appealing to you....but not Brad Pitt types only! I think most normal people aren't set on an ideal since most aren't ideal themselves! Money....maybe a little, at least someone who is goal oriented and has a career, not a bum. Doesn't matter too much how much money he takes in. I'd take a guy who is a social worker over a businessman if he has a better heart. Love well that's just obvious, why marry for anything else since happiness only comes with love and commitment....not material things
2006-12-20 12:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All 3:
Money: Though not the only reason is a necessity because when we are living together, we still have to worry about bills, medical expenses and our children's future - Love can't pay for those things.
Looks: You're gonna be spending the rest of your life with this person, so I see nothing wrong with choosing some one who's easy on the eyes. He doesn't have to be drop that gorgeous but at least attractive. Some ugly men tend to treat their wives like how they look.
Love: Is the essence of any marriage, without it, the marriage won't survive. Love is a combination of many facets which persons need to acquire inorder to have a successful marriage, namely: Trust, committment, communication etc. So love is key to the longevity of a marriage.
2006-12-20 12:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, you are not happy unless it is love. But love hurts and if you don't want that go for money, but then money doesn't buy everything, but then there is the thought of looks, can you live with yourself knowing that he is getting a lot of attention from others, would he cheat? Love Money Looks. That is why women shouldn't marry. All three seem to mess up somewhere. LIve single and saty that way until you have to get married then go for love.
2006-12-20 12:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd only marry a man for the money. I'm speaking the truth. No women in her right mind would choose good looking man with a whole lot of love over a multi- millionaire. Boy are you crazy?
2006-12-20 12:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the idea man would have all 3 but they are few and far between. I am attracted to a man by the way he carries himself and takes care of himself not necessarily good looking. If a man can talk to you well he has a great chance even if he has no money. I get the hots for a really respectable man you know the kind that pretend they wouldn't cheat but are just waiting to be approached.
2006-12-20 12:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the only reason I would marry someone. Money and looks are unimportant, but honestly, it would be a nice bonus to be in love with a man who just happens to be rich and attractive.
2006-12-20 12:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of those 3 things, only for love...looks don't ensure he's someone you want to live with...and money can be tons of fun but it doesn't snuggle with you at night...
I can make my own money and get by...and although looks are nice to gaze upon, I'll stay single before I get with a guy ONLY because he's good looking...
Love...yeah...corny as it sounds, that's why I would marry (if I would marry at all)...
2006-12-20 12:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married for love. Money can't buy love. If she doesn't love him, then its just going to be problems in the long run.
Love is the only way, everything else will fall in line.
2006-12-20 13:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love. But if he happens to have lots of money and good looks that'll be fine with me...lol. But seriously i think love should be the first reason for getting married.
2006-12-20 13:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by maimai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋