I was playing truth or dare with my cousin Matt, Amanda and three of Amandas girlfriends. We are all Sophomores in college and we were just hanging out at Amanda and her roomates house. Well, needless to say we were all drinking and having fun playing truth or dare. One dare was even to doorbell ditch one of the neighbors, some were to make prank calls etc.. Well, Amandas friend Bianca knew I was a little drunk (Im not blaming her though) and when she asked me a very personal question, I chose the dare. She asked me to sit down on the recliner naked and masturbate to a picture of Lindsay Lohan. I also had to scream her name when I orgasmed. Well, needless to say I did this and I just took off all my clothes and lied on the recliner and went at it, I asked for lubricant and one of the girls got me some. I was embarrassed when its was over. Some of the girls said I had a needle di##. I am 3 inches erect. Matt was laughing hysterical. I am wondering if this will all be forgotten later?
2006-12-20 11:49:35 · 32 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
This is a very complicated situation, but I might have a solution. If what your saying is that your friend Matt, and the girls continue to make fun of you, even after the fact, this could be a very minor case of bullying. As ridiculous as this may seem, bullying occurs everywhere, in all schools, and even in the workplace. A simple solution would be to let something humiliating happen to one of your cousins, or their friends, but if they are mature, in time they will all see that this event will not become as humorous as they that it to be. As for Bianca, hopefully she will realize that what she did was not necessary.
So to sum it up, waiting for something else to happen would be the first choice, or your friends realizing that it is not funny, would be the second choice. I wish you the best of luck!!!
-One tip: If the same group gets together, and brings up this situation, i would let it go over my head, and bring up another topic.
2006-12-20 12:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man are you in for it. My advice would be laugh about it. You can't change it and you can't make them forget. If you stay upset about it then it will only make things worse. You will more than likely here this story for the rest of your life. However everyone does some kind of stupid stuff that they can never live down. Maybe not like this but still it is something that will keep going. Hopefully your cousin won't go telling everyone that might help a little. But it is a little strange to do this while people are watching. I have to give you credit though having the ABILITY to stay up while people are watching is a gift. If you ever research the pornographic workplace then you will find out that the hardest part of the job for guys is staying up while there are others around. SO no matter how big it is you go man you go. I would also advise not drinking so much that you will do something you will regret later. This was something that didn't hurt anyone but if you were driving and hurt someone then that would be a real regret. Have fun and party but keep an eye on how much you take in.
Good Luck and You Go man
2006-12-20 12:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Feather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a forgiving cousin and friends, they will just all accept this as part of who you are. Laugh at yourself and make yourself get over it. It's not like the worst thing that has ever happened. I would never personally do it and moving up in this area would be a definate benefit for you in the social world, but you only live once! Just cross it off your "to do" list and move on. LOL
And for Pete's sake, you can do better than Lindsay Lohan!
2006-12-20 19:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth or Dare is all about going to far! That is what you are supposed to do. You have also learned a valuable lesson. If you have a small dick don't whip it out and do that for everyone to inspect. you shouldn't pull that thing out unless the girl you are with is drunk and you have the lights off. Now you know.
2006-12-20 17:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will have a hard time living this one down. You are going to have to forgive yourself as well. I sense some anger at yourself.Hindsight is 20/20 I am sure if you could take this night back you would. I am sure that one of these people will bring this up to you in the future.I'm sure it will not be forgotten! I am sorry that this happened! Oh! Drinking how it will screw up a life!
2006-12-20 11:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey you were stupid enough to put yourself out there in front of everyone and act like an idiot. What did you expect people to say? Did you think that the women would take one look at you playing with yourself and say, wow that's the guy for me. And this won't be forgotten easily. I still remember the stupid stuff my guy friends did when we were in the Army.
2006-12-20 16:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you have reacted &/or behaved that way if you had been sober? Do you really think these people are friends of yours, or that you are even a friend to yourself? You can begin to learn how to be, by thoughtfully reading the following ...
What's Wrong With Binge Drinking?
- The Dangers
- Tragic Statistics
- Pressure to Drink
- What Choice Will You Make?
http://watchtower.org/e/20040922a/article_01.htm
How to Make Real Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm
I hope that you will invest the time & effort to help yourself avoid making more problems for yourself, while learning how to lay a strong foundation for a happy future!
2006-12-20 12:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Two words, you poor guy. Faux Pas (French for false step) is a violation of accepted, although unwritten, social rules. Move far away after school. It won't go away, but at least you'll probably never have to hear about it again.
2006-12-20 17:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by twar_chamila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you may have gone a little far! DON'T PLAY TRUTH OR DARE WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK!!! Never a good idea!
It will take a while for this one to go away! Sorry babe!
2006-12-20 12:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Matt. Poor boy! You will never, ever live this moment down. They may, just may, forget how it all happened, but your great, great, great, great grandchildren will all hear the story that their ancestor Matt had a 3" needle-di-ck
2006-12-20 12:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by morahastits 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋