Ok, so my friend recently just found out that her crush likes her back, and they talked and everything. They're no going out, but they know they like each other, and pass notes in class and stuff in their classes together. However, she wanted my other BFF and me to go ask him to ask him out. We did, but we kept on asking it, and she got upset (I don't know why). So now, whenever I see her crush, and ask a question or say hi ('cause I kinda know him now) she reacts violently and either pulls me (REALLY hard!) away or drags me away. It hurts, and I'm upset over how she's acting towards me like that. How can I exactly make her stop? It's not like I'm trying to steal her crush (besides, I have my own! XD)!
2006-12-20 11:45:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should speak with her and tell her you did what she asked you to do. Try and work it out what ever is bugging her.
In the future, stay out of your friends business as you seem to have learned it is more trouble than it is worth. If one of your friends likes a guy and wants to ask them out, have them go and do it themselves.
2006-12-20 11:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous of you for being so open and natural when comes to relationship. She is aware that you have a bf but she just wouldn't trust herself. She is a possessive type and fears rejections from her crush. She got upset because she is not getting the right response from her crush and she is fuming inside her. You are a victim of her frustration and rejection. You got to allow her to cool down and stop going in between. Assure her by getting close to your bf instead - eg. talk about the gd things about ur bf, what u did with him etc.
2006-12-20 11:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her she is making herself look bad in front of her crush! By pulling you and doing stuff like that she makes herself look very immature. Pretty soon he is not gonna like what he sees in how she treats her friends and not like her either and it is gonna be her own fault.
2006-12-20 11:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie,u are da coolest thing i thought u will be,u really cares about your FRIEND.honey let me tell u something to put in your mind dat,do watever pleases u n don't let your friend ruined your life cuz is all about u,my precious gurl.MERRY CHRISTMAS TO U N YOUR FAMILY.
2006-12-20 11:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by diana b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sooo weird, ask her what's up , and if everything is ok, tell her to stop hurting u!!! she's jealous!!!!
2006-12-20 12:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Shay. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her not to touch you. and that it is your business who you talk to and that if she dont like it tough. if she cant see that she is never going to make it in any relationship.
2006-12-20 11:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they should go out or just let him go. Don't try to steal him. Give it time.....:)
2006-12-20 11:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋