They're both in 8th grade and this is her first relationship, and His 2nd.
2006-12-20 11:37:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Set boundaries (i.e. only movies and walk to get something to eat, or go out in a group). No parties without at least two adults present. No dates without first talking to his parents.
Then talk to his parents and make sure they understand your rules and vice versa.
2006-12-21 07:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first real relationship in 8th grade, too. It lasted only for about a month, but me and him are still friends. Talk to your "teen" about what a relationship is like. Support her decisions, but if you're not comfortable with something she's doing, tell her. Relationships aren't something one can just toy around with; now that she's getting into relationships, there will be drama. Get to know her new boyfriend, but don't barge into her life. If you watch her like a hawk and get into her business, it'll drive her to do something rebellious. But if you're layed back, but still keeping an eye on things, she'll feel more comfortable about the situation. Keep an eye out, though; make sure you know what's going on. But, as of now, let her have a relationship. It's a wonderful experience, and can make her very happy.
2006-12-20 19:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by abby lynn 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel. If you think that she is too young to date, then if you are her parent, you have every right to protest this decision. It sounds like you are not really comfortable with her going out to date. Has she tried to talk to you about this, have you told her your feelings? You need to get these kinds of conversations out of the way, so you know if she is capable to handle herself on a date. I do not think that a child can just say and do whatever they want to do, that is really senseless. This may be her first boyfriend, but she needs to take it slow. She is only in the eighth grade and she can date later on in the future during her teen years, somewhere around the ages of sixteen and seventeen. Right now, she needs to focus on something else either than boys.
2006-12-21 09:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things happen in 8th grade a lot. Don't stress about it. If you think your daughter is responsible dont worry. Let them have fun (go to the movies, hang out etc.). Don't be over protective but be a caring, worried parent at the same time.
2006-12-20 20:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by tictac_lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything about it. But I am confused, why don't you want them to be together? I think that it is better than a guy that she just met. I understand that you might be a little scared that this is her first relationship but don't, she will be fine. I am actually a freshman and am going out with my best guy friend. This is his second relationship and my first. We actually have a better relationship than most because we know alot about eachother and their boundaries. So if you still have a problem then just talk to her and see if she is ready for one.
2006-12-20 20:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by MaculaMaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a first date, not a relationship, right?
I would sit down and talk with your daughter about everything. Don't focus just on the things not to do, or she'll feel like you're lecturing to her. Instead, tell her about your first date and how excited you were and how great dating can be, etc. As part of the conversation, share lessons learned so your daughter can learn, too, but also the two of you will share a memorable mother-daughter moment overall.
2006-12-20 19:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think 8th grade is too young to date, but every parent has their own ideas as to when is the right time.
2006-12-20 19:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a lot you can do. She is going to go out at some point just make sure you have a open and honest relationship with her and know where she is at all times.
2006-12-20 19:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sippy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let her go out with him. It's not that big of a thing and as very normal. Hopefully, if you raised her well, she will do the right and most mature things in her relationship.
2006-12-20 21:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Frank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes going to go out with people eventually.
i was also in eigth grade for my frist relationship.
only the guy was in tenth grade.
you just have to make sure she knows what shes getting into.
boys can be really hurtful
2006-12-20 19:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋