I am 13 and want to have sex b4 my 14 bday in 2 months becuz all my friends do it and i want to know wat its like how do i get a guy to have sex with me
2006-12-20 11:34:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
and because there is this kid thats liked for 3 years and i l.ike him and i no he likes me i want to do him
2006-12-20 11:43:10 · update #1
dont tell me people will call me a slut cuz they wont find out i ask him if you had sex would tell people and he said no and he is only ******* 14 duh **** face
2006-12-20 12:42:16 · update #2
wow...you sound WAY too young and inexpirienced to be even thinking of having sex. You do realize that you don't have to do everything your friends do, right? And you also realize that sex can cause pregnancys, using safety or not? And there are STDs, as well. Please, PLEASE don't have sex and just wait. You will have a better chance of starting out high school without problems..if you want to have fun, go to a movie instead.
2006-12-20 11:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your friends are doing it, doesn't make it right or good, healthy or safe People will think much better of you if you wait, at least until you're 16. Self control is one of the best things you can have in life - It's about you being better and stronger than your so-called "friends". You don't have to have sex because "all my friends are doing it" - that's the stupidest reason ever. "All your friends" are going to get themselves into serious trouble.
Having sex before you are 16 (or 18) is illegal - it is called statutory rape (even if you said yes) - your boyfriend can get a criminal record for sexual offences against a child. And no one likes a child-molesting kiddie f**ker now, do they?
You're better off masturbating by yourself - it's much healthier, totally legal, and lots of fun.
Quite frankly, having sex that young will make people think you're a sl*t. Do you really want people to think you're a skank?
But anyway, if you are going to be stupid and have sex, make sure you use a condom every single time - even though you are a child, you can still get pregnant, and that would just ruin the fun.
2006-12-20 12:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not a doctor, but I would WAIT until you have sex... If you do now, you will have a bad reputation as a whore or a slut(sorry for the language). It can also ruin the relationship between you and your guy friend. You should be aware of the STD(sexually transmitted diseases) and the chance of pregnancy. The only true way to protect yourself from both of these it to NOT have sex. I don't know you, but I would really feel bad if you got pregnant by accident, contracted an STD, or you lst you boyfriend and/or friends... Please think it over; Are you really ready??
2006-12-20 11:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by puke_greenkitttyy23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you may want to now, but please wait, at least until you are like, 19 or 20... you will totally regret it for the rest of your life, saying that you wish it would have been with someone else, because you will never ever ever forget that guy for the rest of your life....and to tell you the truth, you probably won't be friends in a year.
2006-12-20 11:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by toonlink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not take offense to this, but having sex just because all of your friends have is a stupid reason to have sex. There are just too many diseases out there that condoms can't protect you from that you could get from having sex ONCE. Not to mention, a condom does not guarantee that you won't get pregnant, just helps protect you from it. Save yourself for someone you love
(I'm not preaching to wait till your married here, just wait until you're in a relationship), don't do it just cause its "the cool thing".
2006-12-20 11:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by D S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't baby girl that is a huge step and you will regret it forever! I had sex for the first time wayyyyyyyy to early and i regret that I did that too early you will have a lot more respect from future boyfriends and yourself if your ready. But speaking from a medical perspective if you must please be safe and talk with your mother or an older sister/aunt/cousin and obtain birth control and use a condom to prevent an STD but please wait sweetie!
2006-12-20 11:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Michele677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you kill yourself if all your friends did? You need to be your own person and not follow the crowd. You should love yourself enough to wait until you're older and find the person you're going to marry and spend the rest of your life with. Your virginity should be sacred to you and not something to "lose" just becaused everyone else is doing it.
2006-12-20 11:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 ive turned down sex so many time i cant even count dont do it ur too young just wait. and if ur wantin to have a fling ur best chance is in the summer when ur in ur bating suit but its too late now
2006-12-20 11:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to do it because "everyone" is doing it. you may regret it. you should think firs before doing it. be ready.
you should be:
>>physically
>>emotionally
>>mentally
>>spiritually
>>ready for the consequences (ie std, being pregnant, etc.)
there are lots of things to consider. just don't give in to peer pressure. if i may ask, would you jump off a cliff if they did? THINK girl.
2006-12-20 12:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by jae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex at 13. you need to think about the consequences and save your virginity. seriously thats a stupid question. how long have you been with him && you both are to young
2006-12-20 11:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by ihearty0ux0x0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋