You pick your spouse up from work. When you get there he tells you his boss (who's a male) needs a ride home and can you take his boss home? You agree to give the boss a ride home. While your driving with your spouse's boss in the car, you have a can of pop and your spouse wants a drink of it. Instead of asking you, he snaps his fingers at you and tells you hand over that pop to him, he's thirsty. Would you say something right then? Or would you wait to say something until after you dropped his boss off or would you not say anything at all? And if you did say something, what would you say?
2006-12-20 11:00:08 · 27 answers · asked by scared_heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd say something right then and there. I';d tell him don't snap his fingers at me, I'm not his f'ing dog and his *** is walking the rest of the way home. And it would.
2006-12-20 11:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until after the boss is dropped off that way u know the boss doesnt have anything to talk about when he gets back to work I think it would make ur spouse a little uncomfortable at work
2006-12-20 11:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie Pie22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have snapped my fingers right back and said NO. Then when I let the boss out of the car I would ask this husband just who the heck he thinks he's talking to. I would never take that kind of disrespect. The next time I had to pick him up I would be LATE!
2006-12-20 11:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by what do you think? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have given him the drink but I would have said "honey, you don't have to snap your fingers, I can hear. The reason I would have said that is to let him know that he has not been doing that and therefore it is no need to start. I wouldn't have shown off in front of his boss. Once we dropped the boss off, I would have told him not to ever do that again because I am not his dog.
2006-12-20 12:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After I kicked his *** from here to eternity??
No I would ignore him. No one has the right to treat anyone else like that. I would not hand it to him or say anything and then once his boss is out of the car and you guys are home (cause it is not safe to have those talks while driving), I would tell him how that was wrong and you did not appreciate it.
2006-12-20 11:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by mydds07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand why your so offended actually, but seeing that you are I would wait until the boss was out of the car. No one wants to see a couple arguing anyway. And why would anyone belittle someone in front of their boss. I say lighten up, all he wanted was a drink of your soda.
2006-12-20 12:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would hold it in, but tell him off as soon as the boss was out! What I am wondering is why can't people just get along, treat each other well, and appreciate one another? YES I am asking a lot but WHY? I guess I should post if I wanna know huh!? lol! Sorry!
2006-12-20 11:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait to say something about it after the boss is out of the car....but then I guess it depends on which boss it was....he has an immediate boss, then there is big boss.
I would ask him what his deal is....and I am not his slave and he'd better not do it again PERIOD
2006-12-20 11:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until his boss is out of the car and then I would let him have it. I would say don't you ever in your life talk to me that way in front or behind anyone else again or the next time I will embarrass you and me.
2006-12-20 11:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait til the boss is out of the car
then i would tell him..if he were my husband..
i am not a dog..do not snap your fingers at me
if you want a drink then ask for it..
he was just showing off in front of the boss
but what he did was to embarass himself and you
2006-12-20 11:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋