And my mom has not been able to stop yelling at me these past couple weeks. I understand it's the holidays and it is stressfull but....
2006-12-20 10:58:12 · 8 answers · asked by Christie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know how old you are,but whatever age you are it's going to be hard if they divorce.My children had to deal with that. And my youngest child he dealing with it now. I been married 2 times. My 3rd child is from my second marriage so he dealing with it. But one thing I know he better not act like a brat about it. It's not his or your fault why these things happen.You need to tell your mom, mom am right here you don't have to yell.I know this because my oldest child had to tell me that. And he did and you have to say it in a clam voice or she not going to hear you. My son had to tell me more then once. But every time he told me in a clam voice. You need to tell your mom. She may not really realize she yelling. Family problems are not easy. And don't hate yourself and do crazy things because your upset. Instead do positive things to better your life.Do you feel me.
2006-12-20 11:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry its tough to go through these things. find a time when you and your mom can talk by yourselves. tell you how you feel. tell her you are hurt and even a little angry about the situation. tell her how much you love her and want to help her through this. keep in mind your moms hurting too and unfortunely they have a tendancy to take it out on the kids. let her know you know she is unhappy but you want her to stop yelling at you. try to be more helpful around the house and suggest she see a couselor to help her deal with this. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-20 11:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your mom shouldn't ake her nager out on you. She should have a good talk with you and your dad and determine waht is gonna happen but- when people say they are getting divorced and say it whent hey are angry they really don't mean it but- if she said it and was sane- she probably means it. Be strong and everything will be fine. Pray to god for help!
2006-12-20 11:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first they need to turn to God.and second they shouldn't worry about money ext... worrying is a sin by the way.trust in God.third in a nice way let them know these things and see if they can find someone to lesson to there problems they are having with each other.and give advice on how to correct the problem.Good luck&peace!!
2006-12-20 11:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by derrik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry the holidays should be happy, just pray for them
2006-12-20 11:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry let everything work itself out god bless youi hope it turns out fine im sure it will keep ur chin upp!
2006-12-20 11:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but what????? Be like a ghost and disappear.. Stay out if the way...
2006-12-20 11:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by goin_truck_racin06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them ask them whats goin on they probably want to talk to you to
2006-12-20 11:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by christian-wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋