my gf asked me to share her with my best friend. we have been together for 6 years. My best freind and i have been friends for 17 year so i totally trust him. in the past we have talked about doing stuff with other people but never really decided on anything. my gf brought up trying it with my best friend cuz she's always thought he was hot and he is well hung. i trust my gf when she says it just for fun and totally loves me. but this kinda scares me...in a way I'd rather it be withj a stranger that we would never see again...should i allow this???
2006-12-20 10:36:05 · 19 answers · asked by donnie b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is wanting you to give her permission to sleep with your best friend? Really? Wow she has some balls......
The answer to her-- No. And if she is not happy with that answer, well then you know that she really does not love you all that much after all.
2006-12-20 10:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by mydds07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You totally should!!! IF you want to lose your best friend AND your girlfriend. I would tell her that I don't want to be with someone who wants to be with someone else -- however temporarily -- and that our relationship goals are different. That way you at least get to keep your best friend. Or, if you don't really care about her anyway, let your friend do her, then dump her and you guys can laugh about it. But if you really like her, you're just asking for trouble, BIG trouble.
Either way, ask her if you can have sex with her best friend. Maybe that will clear things up for her.
2006-12-20 19:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't allow it. It's the principle of thing. What concerns me is that she was thinking of your friend in that way. There is nothing fun about sleeping with your spouse/significant others friends. It sounds to me like she wants to have you and try something else out too. I would say no way!
2006-12-20 18:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Count me for another NO. Sure fire way to lose them both - and maybe to eachother.
No friendship, no relationship survives this stuff, no matter what you read in books or mags, honey. Real life is a drag. Leave the porn to fiction.
2006-12-20 18:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be fun at the time, but this will cause weirdness between you and your best friend and your gf. You will regret it. Just say "NO".
2006-12-20 18:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by hotgramma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no i would never allow this with the best friend or anyone else. u may never be able to see your friend in the same light again if this happens. it will ruin your friendship, and u may loose your girl to him. wouldn't trust it with him, or anyone. if she is not satisfied with just u, i would wonder about how sincere she was, and how much she loved me.
2006-12-20 19:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOAHHHH!! RED FLAG! NO GOOD!! I done did that and lost both people, things wre never the same and toooooo many doubts and worries etc.Was fun tho!
2006-12-20 18:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow it. Your gf is showing signs of being a sex addict. Dump her.
2006-12-20 20:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you, depends on what kind of relationship you're comfortable with. I wouldn't consider sending my husband to another woman, but to each their own.
2006-12-20 18:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do it. it will ruin both your relationship with your girlfriend and your relationship with your best friend. if she really needs to have sex with other people she shouldn't be in a relationship.
2006-12-20 18:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by tahoegirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋