my best friend hates this other friend and i hate her too. but she keeps on gossping about my best friend. what should i do? should tell her staight up that we hate her or just play along and tell my best friend about what she says? HELP ME?
2006-12-20 10:25:59 · 13 answers · asked by anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
'honesty is the best policy'
Just be honest with her about your feelings, so you don't feel so stuck on having to listen to her bash your best friend. You and your friend shouldn't care with this "friend" thinks about you.
2006-12-20 10:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by plcarnrike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mkay.
I Think That You Shouldn't Tell The Girl That You Hate Her. Just Simply Go To The Counsler Or Principle To Tell Them What The Girl Is Doing And How She Is Spreading Rumors.
Just Do The Right Thing.
2006-12-20 18:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by ♥omgitskris♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is bad. Obviously, she's a terrible friend, so ditch her. She doesn't deserve to be friends with you. And if you hate her, what's the point of staying friends? It'll probably end in an ugly way anyway. Plus, you want an avantage. So stick up for yourself and your best friend and break up. It's the only way to stop this madness.
2006-12-20 18:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trifling is as trifling does. First of all if you both hate her, then why do you refer to her as a "friend". Secondly, conversations only go both ways. What are you saying to her as she's talking about your other friend? Are you in her "Amen" corner or are you telling her to knock it off? If you don't care for her, don't hang around her. If you are in situations where you have to be together, then be straight up with her: "I don't appreciate how you talk about my friend. If you have a problem with her, then tell her, don't talk about her behind her back."
If your other friend doesn't like her either, then both of you should just remove yourselves from the other girls' presence. It's just that simple.
2006-12-20 18:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be around the bush tell her like it is since you hate her too,you should of said something in the first place when she said something you sound like your scared of this person! Im I right! you don't have to have your friend at your side to say something.
2006-12-20 19:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, isnt it obvious? why would you even want to be around someone who is mean about your best friend, and who you dont even like? Why would you want to go to the effort of being fake and pretending you like her, and surrounding yourself with her negative energy? YOU dont have to be mean about it, cos tha would bring you down to her level, but just tell her you dont want to be around her anymore because you cant stand the way she gossips about your best friend, then dont talk to her again!
2006-12-20 18:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Steph C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So it sounds like she's gossiping to you about your best friend. Don't listen to what she says, walk away. If you don't like don't let her know still be nice. If she still talks to about your friend tell her you know this person is my best friend stop talking about her like that. DRAMA is so dumb!
2006-12-20 18:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by twinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like her, why are you even talking about her?
Why waste you energy? Just ignore her and don't hang out anymore. Seems like you are creating more drama.
2006-12-20 18:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up 2 her or just ignore her 4 now but if she really bothers u talk to her
2006-12-20 18:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by lolers. yepps. thats me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. That's the relationship I had with all of my friends. You'll get used to it.
2006-12-20 18:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋