2006-12-20 10:17:11 · 13 answers · asked by Ia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You ask him to sit down and then calmly explain this to him. Tell him that you will leave if he lies one more time and then DO IT!!
2006-12-20 10:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm one of those types of men that lie ! Even by omission, I still get caught.
I am guilty as charged, however sometimes to tell the truth is really cruel and harsh and unfeeling, but I guess we just get it wrong.
It is so easy to become defensive and then to knee jerk, reacting by covering up our failings or misadventures. Sometimes we wish we were better than we actually are, so pride must be part of the cycle.
So, sit your man down and try to discuss the reasons or needs behind the lies / falsehoods. Try to establish and understand the problem. Then make a plan together where there is some sort of arbitration to address the breakdown in communication. Mind you, if the lies are to cover up affairs or gambling, then that is another matter all together and I can not help there.
Good luck
2006-12-20 19:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by Not too smart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to prepare yourself for the idea of really "going away" if he doesn't stop. If you are truly to that point, then sit down with him and explain to him that you can't go on being lied to. Ask if he wants counseling. He may be a habitual liar and need help stopping. Offer to go with him.
2006-12-20 18:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by hotgramma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start lying to him about little things that u know he knows ur lying and when he gets mad then explain to him that's what his doing to u so ur gong to do the same thing back , but man lie sorry to tell u he w.o.n.t stop
2006-12-20 19:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder just that very same thing . My husband lies to me a lot. I wish he would stop.
2006-12-20 20:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly that..
He may be a pathological / habitual liar ( mentally ill )
and he can / will never stop lying...
2006-12-20 18:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like that.
The hard part is, the next time he lies, you have to go away.
2006-12-20 18:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Scott F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd pack his bags, put them outside, change the locks and leave it at that.
2006-12-20 18:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same way you typed this Straight up and after you say it mean it and if it doesn't stop leave.
2006-12-20 18:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats RIGHT - a simple word if he wont stop u goin leave him tell him so he will stop
2006-12-20 18:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋