My question refers mostly to recent conversations I've had with friends online. On another note and kind of the same subject, I do sometimes question the morals of bisexuality. For instance, yesterday at a factory tour, I caught this girl around 23 years old staring at my little cousin's ***. My cousin is only 14 years old and it really bothered me. Now I know this doesn't reflect all bisexuals but it didn't help my outlook.
2006-12-20 10:16:57 · 19 answers · asked by xxbenchxxmarksxx 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're correct in questioning the morals, and you shouldn't be associating with her socially, especially when your cousin is around.
Don't let these people on this board make you doubt yourself. They're mostly liberals and in this section homosexuals, themselves who don't want to admit that there's something wrong with it.
For example, look at the person responding who said "14 isn't little." Sounds like a NAMBLA member.
2006-12-20 10:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Joe C 5 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Yeah to generalize a bisexual looking at her a s s would be the same as doing so for the 23 year old man that could have been checking her out. Don't knock the woman for being bisexual, knock her for being rude and disgusting. Bisexuality has nothing to do with that. A person should act appropriate regardless of which gender they prefer to
f u c k.
2006-12-20 10:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Rabeka♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only makes her bi if she still likes guys sexually. As for that second part, she didn't make a move on a 14 y/o. She just looked. Some straight women look at male athletes sexually, even if some might in fact be high school athletes and not college level. Looking at something or someone attractive is normal. She didn't cross the line by looking. A lot of married men look, but that doesn't mean they're cheating. Same difference here. There's a fine line between having a desire and acting on it and she didn't cross it.
2006-12-20 10:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a girl finds another girl sexually attractive, they she very well may be bisexual or a lesbian. It's one thing to find a woman to find another woman attractive. It's a whole other thing to find her SEXUALLY attractive. Saying, "Wow, she is really pretty" is a lot different than "God, she gets me so hot when I look at her!"
Being sexually aroused by someone is a pretty good way of determining a person sexuality. For instance, if two guys are in the show at the gym and one of the guys is glancing at the other one and getting a bonerl, I would guess that he is gay or bisexual because he's getting aroused by the sight of another guy.
As for the woman staring at your cousin's azz, how do you know that what's she was looking at? she could have been looking at something crawling on the back of her pants or staring at the pattern on her jeans or dress. If she said, "Hey, your cousin has a cute little azz," that would be completely different.
2006-12-20 10:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Bisexual means that a person likes both men and women and finds both sexually stimulating.One woman finding another sexually attractive doesn't automaticly mean they want to have sex with them it just means that the person is sexually attractive as in eye candy or fantasy material.
M.G
2006-12-20 10:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Malia G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No- i myself have found other females attractive but i have never thought of myself as bisexual. I do not even believe in bisexuality in the first place but i know you can find your gender attractive and not have sex with them. it's more like admiration. that 23 year old was probably thinking gee that girl has a nice *** and might have even been envious. i doubt she wanted to tap that or whatever. unless you actually have sex with females/physical activity you are not bi.
2006-12-20 10:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your cousin is hot, then it's only natural for people to look.. not just bi's will look too.
i find teens to be attractive, and i do catch myself staring at times, but i would never go anything inappropriate.
not all bi's are like that.. most bi's are actually quite normal people.. just because we are suscpectible to falling for one or the other sex, doesn't mean we have to have both concurrently.. and it certainly doesn't mean we'll go after teens or children.
as far as the sexual attraction part, well yes, she could be bi or just curious..
2006-12-20 11:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a girl finds another girl sexually attractive doesnt mean that they are bisexual. it could be just a phase. many women experiment with their sexuality because they are confused. many girls even have sexual experiences just to find out that they arent interested in women
2006-12-20 10:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by hariet t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think so, it really depends on the person. Some people have the ability to find beauty in various things SUCH AS THE SAME SEX.
Therefore, the ability to find sexual interest in the same sex makes one bisexual/homosexual.
2006-12-20 10:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by slender1 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No. I find many women attractive, but I have no sexual feelings for them. That doesn't make me bisexual. (Although I have nothing against homosexuals or bisexuals)
2006-12-20 10:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by alessa_sunderland 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋