Keep trying! And when you find the right girl, you will know =)
A question for the guys, Why are guys sometimes mean to the girls?
I guess the same princibles apply if you think about it
2006-12-20 10:15:11
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answered by Anonymous
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There is no point, unless you enjoy talking to them. You just wait for them to stop and grow up and learn not to be stupid little preteen bitches. Except some girls never stop, and not talking to them won't get you a girlfriend now, and when you are old enough to get married you won't know how to talk to girls.
The best advice I can offer you is to not talk to the popular girls as a guy who wants a girlfriend- maybe as a guy who wants a friend who is a girl- when the stakes aren't so high you feel more confident. Or, if you want a girlfriend, and if the sixth grade girls have respect for the seventh grade boys, find the hottest of them and ask them out, and if they are single and don't have alot of self-respect they might say yes for the leverage of having a sevie boyfriend. Or perhaps don't aim so high- look to other nerdy girls who want a boyfriend as much as you want a girlfriend. Even a hot nerdy girl will do. Or a hot shy girl.
You know, I ask myself the same question- but the answer is that you someone to go out with so much, like you want to see a movie that seems really good, except so much more. And you can't ignore that.
So that is why I stand around my friends and their guy friends when they come over after school and try to think of something intelligent to say when I really can't think of anything to say. And that's why I join my school's drama group (which is with our school's brother's school), and why I even go to dances- as I never am actually asked to dance, and so much more. And thats why I still hover around even after I know that the guys think I'm weird and.....
Well, I think I've ranted enough. But the point is that there is no point except that you want to.
2006-12-20 20:43:22
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answered by Ashley 3
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Well, personally to me I don't like a certain nerds. But I'm anerd in my own way I just don't act like one.. We can all be classified as a certain person, me as way way to chatty but anyways. It's how we see ourselves.. I don't think you should push the whole girlfriend thing, my friend didn't have a girlfriend till grade 10 nd had never been kissed but he's now so close to girlfriend it's wonderful =).. And he's such a nice guy but not outwardly cool. Wait and the right girl will fall into your lap and don't try to find a girlfriend or get one because if you find a girl who's really worth going out with go out with her because I'm sure she's the right one... Don't just ask a pretty girl becuse then you're doing just what you don't want people to do to you.
Good-luck! And don't stress out.
Karina
2006-12-20 21:00:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Zack, my boy,
I hate the negative use of stereotypes like "nerd" although its use in the past, present and future won't stop teenagers from labeling others as such. The girls you are talking to and getting mean responses from are immature and insecure, they're only worried about "fitting in." Talking nicely to perceived "nerds' gets them labeled by their posse as "weak." So in order to get a laugh and a secure place in their groups, they will say mean things.
Trust me when I say that what goes around, comes around and these same girls, will have the same thing done to them, maybe not now, but it always comes back to roost. I know that doesn't console or help you now, but don't give up. I've always liked the nice boys, am even married to a nerd-type, you will meet the right kind of girl, just don't let them get to you.
Hang in there, Zack, don't let those girls get you down or change you.
2006-12-21 16:34:32
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answered by Yankee Micmac 5
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I think that you are looking in the wrong crowd of girls. Try to look for girls who like the same things as you, but still she has her own style. You need to know, in the teen years, girls can tend to act mean towards guys. They want someone who is a pretty boy, athlete, popular, can support them financially, just basically the guys who don't have brains. I am sure you have good qualities about yourself so don't think you can't get a girlfriend. Also, do not ever seem desperate to have a girlfriend, that kind of pushes girls away. If you act desperate, girls will ignore your genuine personality and remember the fact that you are needy. Have more confidence in yourself. It is GREAT to be smart, and be your own individual. I know a girl, someone you have not even thought of, will eventually come your way.
2006-12-21 09:18:23
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answered by spyder90tishuez 3
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Not all girls are mean to nerds, some of us even appreciate them completely. I have and always will be in love with nerds. My guy is in to Dungeons and Dragons, video games, and fantasy novels. I wouldn't have it any other way. Give it time and the right girl will fall into your life, and all those girls who over look you will realize that you may have been what they were looking for. Good Luck......
2006-12-20 19:04:10
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answered by novelwyrm 3
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Dont pay them any mind they're just stuck up. They're not the right kind of girls to ask out. They'll back stab you. But dont worry you'll find the right girl. I dont understand why they're mean to you just because you lived in Japan i think thats awesome!! I hope everything goes good for you.
God bless ^-^
2006-12-20 18:41:13
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answered by Questions ^_^ 3
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i love nerds. i am one and i am marrying one :) you are just talking to the wrong girls they think cos you dont do "cool" things that you arent worth it. You are sensible. You sound like my fiancee actually cos he was like that at high school lol but then he found me and i found him. so im sure you will find youself a nice gf when you least expect it. Btw my fiancee got picked on at high school cos his family is from cambodia so he is chinese looking and no one wanted to talk to him from that really. People judge when they do not understand. Its human nature. They just look whats on the outside not whats in a persons heart.
2006-12-20 18:45:30
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answered by miss89 2
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How can anyone hate nerds? They are the greatest people ever!
Don't pay any attention to those meanies and go after someone else.
2006-12-20 18:13:07
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answered by Anonymous
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You should just be yourself and a gentleman and very thing will work out greatly in your life. Someday someone will see you more than a label and be your girlfriend.
2006-12-20 21:19:24
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answered by Frank 1
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