2006-12-20 10:07:36 · 26 answers · asked by yasminita786 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be Angelina Jolie.
Silly answer? Silly question. You can't control another's feelings for you. All you can do is be you and hope he's into that.
2006-12-20 10:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure he loves you. Men like submission and gentleness with the family. They like a mattress kitten behind closed doors, dress up for him at least once a week, make it a date. Make sure you cook for him and provide a lunch for at work. Just be consistently sweet, he may be suspicious at first, but eventually ur life together will be better and better and u'll notice that when he's happy he'll look for ways to show you that your loved. Also don't get caught up in u has to feel a certain way that is not what love is, those are emotions and they are unreliable and inconsistent.Read ur bible also there are some very good verses on what love is in 1 Corinthians verses 4-7.God Bless you both.
2006-12-20 18:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by kimmycat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean you want him to love u as much as u love him ? maybe u should try making Ur self a little less out of love from him , i hope u don't have the Malina Griffin sndrm where u love Ur husband more then he loves u , that when u think he doesn't love u as much as u would like him too , its u dear don't gave Ur self full to a guy , how about u love Ur self enough for the both of u ?
2006-12-20 19:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make your husband love you. If you want to get love, you must sow love. You should also talk to your husband to let him know what you feel like you're lacking. He probably doesn't even know that you're feeling deprived of love from him.
2006-12-20 18:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Iwannaknow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reverse psychology....become more unavailable more often, for example: don't answer your phone EVERY single time he calls. I know it seems like playing games, but it works. Also, as much a possible, dress nicely, get your hair done, take care of yourself. Be and act confident!! Get a little freaky in the bedroom department (without degrading yourself). Have fun with him more often, smile!!!
Happy Holidays
2006-12-20 18:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you. If he can't love you for what you are then he never will. I know this isn't what you want to hear but it's kinda how love works.
2006-12-20 18:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he loves you, he loves you. If he doesn't, he doesn't. lol That's all there is to it. Marriage is hard. However, don't make it any harder on yourself by wanting to earn his love after you are married. That should have been done before the wedding.
2006-12-20 18:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot make anyone love you more. all you can do is be yourself and be honest. If you are feeling low and unloved, talk with him.
2006-12-20 18:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him do something he doesn't want to do. If he loves you more, he does. If he has reached a plateau and will go no further, then you are SOL.
2006-12-20 18:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make someone love you but you can tell them how you're feeling
2006-12-20 18:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋