I have custody of my daughter. I let her mom take care of her for awhile.she signed papers and we had them notorized that she would return her with in 2 weeks upon my request.I asked her to bring her back 1 month ago and she won't. I live in Tn and she has her in Co. So I called the sherrif they won't do anything. So I have to go all the way there and get her. What do I need to bring besides custody papers and what is the cops job when I get there with papers.
2006-12-20 09:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by jpb 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
You haven't quite clarified that your ex-girlfriend is the child's mother, but I'm gathering that's the situation. If you have custody and can prove it, you willl have to go to Colorado and go to the police station and calmly and intelligently explain the situation. Do not yell and do not get irrational or out of control. The police will be much more supportive if you appear to be an intelligent, rational person. Hopefully they will accompany you to this woman's house. If the police accompany an individual to a home in this sort of situation, they are usually the one's who take charge of the situation and ask the mother to turn over custody of the child.
If you cannot get the police involved, by the way, they are violating their duty to protect the custodial parents' rights in not assisting you, then you will have to deal with this matter yourself initially. Ask your daughter's mother to turn over the child, do it politely, but firmly. Avoid doing this in front of the child, if possible. Do not argue with the mother. Keep an even tone and stay calm. If she refuses, do not keep standing there and fighting with her and aggravate the situation. Advise her that you will be consulting an attorney and taking her to court to resolve the issue, which may include being charged for kidnapping, then calmly leave. At this point, you will need to take her back to family court to get the court to force her to turn over the child to you and to proceed with charges for kidnapping if this is a path you wish to take.
2006-12-20 09:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Venice Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you ntoify her? She should have been sent a request through your attorney. Then you should give her the two weeks. After this time she will be in violation of the "notorized agreement" and you have a case to stand on. I would contact the sherriff of the county that she lives in and ask why they will not act on this then respond accordingly. She may return your daughter after the attorney sends a notice to her. I imagine that you will need copies of the greement, and custody papers. I hope that things work out. Have a great weekend.
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2006-12-20 10:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your no longer stupid....you're being a common spouse. Your husband is incorrect right here. it is an ex-female friend, no longer only a lady buddy he had earlier he met you. you've been affected individual or perhaps tried to be her buddy and she or he blew you off, what are you meant to imagine? the undeniable truth that your husband may even strive against with you about this and say your jealous supplies me issue so it truly may provide you with issue. i'm particular no longer some thing is going on yet its no longer a sturdy issue... it makes you uncomfortable and your husband could appreciate that and promises up the friendship. what's the point of the friendship besides????? He should be worried about his marriage falling aside because of his hiding this friendship, paying for toddler presents (it is unusual to me) and letting the truth this woman blew off your friendship flow unoticed...... you've each and every precise to be pissed and jealousy is a small area of it... its the disrespect for you that your no longer satisfied with... precise???? If it were me, i'd tell my husband that its me or the friendship and then i'd recognize the position I stood. If he rather helps this to reason topics, then he nevertheless loves her.... sorry.
2016-11-28 00:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by hellyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have the court order she has to comply with the papers. You can get her into trouble with the courts. I will advise you that the cops don't like to deal with those types of issues because it happened to me and the father of my daughter. The father didn't want to give her back, when I called the cops the story they gave me is that they can not pull the child away from the parent because he is the biological father. If i were you I would take this serious matter to the court and they can revoke the all the rights to the mother or if she does want to see your daughter she would have to do it under supervision. good luck to you and your daughter.
2006-12-20 09:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by ivonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to report her for kidnapping and GO GET YOUR DAUGHTER!! If she refuses once you get there, take the custody papers as well as the notarized documents to the police and report her. Once you fill out a report, they should accompany you to retrieve your child.
2006-12-20 09:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to bring the local police, their job is to make sure you get her back. If she doesn't charge her with kidnapping.
2006-12-20 09:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would go there and if she refused to give her to me i would call the police show them the papers
good luck
2006-12-20 09:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by hardwood 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋