help me and my close friend have been there for eachother threw everything, like i was always the only one at all her horse shows and now iam not invited to her b-day it just seems all weird. yes i have not been around alot latly but i have been still trying to stay intouch. help advise needed.
2006-12-20 09:28:24 · 17 answers · asked by angeldancer68 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if this were me, i would give her a call, tell her that you heard that she was having this party and come right out and ask her if you did something wrong to cause her not to invite you. this is the only way your going to find out. don't ask others why she did not invite you, and when she tells you the reason except it for what it is worth and move on.PS don't guilt her into inviting you. because you and her will only feel uncomfortable.
2006-12-20 09:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good friend will always pick up were you two left off becasue we all know that life gets busy. It could be one of two things, the friend may think that you are too busy or you are no longer as close as you thought. Dont stress over it. just get to the point. A real friend will just be upfront and ask why they were not invited and the friend should be able to say why. Use this as a meter to determine where your friendship is.
2006-12-20 09:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Candace Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someone told her not to invite you that is more of someone she wants to hang with dont freak out i know it happens my best friend i hvae known for 7 years did the same thing to me :( but i said so when are u having ur party and she told me and i said so can i come and she said yes) Just dont invite ur self make it not so obvious But if she says that she can only invite a few people and doesnt invite you say then thats ok and yah i know it will b upsetting but Do something that day with a other friend of urs and tell her u will b busy anyways.......:)
Hope i helped
2006-12-20 09:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by happy_go_lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes it's a werid sittion, but maybe, and probabily this is what she wants from you: to create a mess in your mind or to give the feeling that she is angry at you. So probabily she is. If you are good friends just send her an SMS (it's better now then a phone call) and ask her why didn't she invite you or just ask her if she's angry at you. NAywayyou have to talk to her. In the worst case you won't go to her b-party and then you canask her "How was your bparty? Had fun?". I wish you good luck, and remeber, if she's a really good friend you cant alk to her!
2006-12-20 09:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by asking_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Lady, i will be at the wedding party, and i will not be late. For if one is late Jesus will not know you, so we must by all means be on time. Mat 25:5 While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept. Mat 25:6 And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him. Mat 25:7 Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps. Mat 25:8 And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out. Mat 25:9 But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves. Mat 25:10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut. Mat 25:11 Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us. Mat 25:12 But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not. Mat 25:13 Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh.
2016-05-23 01:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure theres a reason. Either she doesnt
really want to hang out with you at the
party.
Or she wants someone else to be there
that doesnt like you that she likes better.
2006-12-20 09:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should throw a party and invite every1 of ur friends except her and if she asks y then u tell her that u felt left out when she trew a party w/ invitin u
2006-12-20 10:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a friend at all people do get busy with day to day life so that is just an excuse ,her lost ...
2006-12-20 09:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she didnt invite u.and work dat out cuz she mite jus be mad at you cuz u havent really talked 2 her in a while
2006-12-20 09:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that she obviously doesn't value your friendship or feel the same way about the friendship as you do.
2006-12-20 09:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋