am I wrong for being pissed? He only sees our kids 2 days out of the month and he lives 30 minutes away.
2006-12-20 08:57:11 · 21 answers · asked by Jayda J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You say he has five kids and he only sees yours 2 days out of the month. Well I guess we know what he likes to do in his spare time. LOL. I feel bad for your kids. Deadbeat dads make me angry.
2006-12-20 09:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not but there is nothing that you can do, except be there for your kids. I have a ex husband who has done the same thing but in a bigger way. He remarried had three boys with this women, and now they are no longer together and he has a girlfriend who just had his baby. Now he has 6 biological children. two step children and his girlfriend has triplets. Run down he has 7 kids under the age of 11 living with him; two step children living with his second wife , and my two kids who live me. That is a grand total of 11 kids that call him "Dad". I stay out of it and the kids end up getting along and that is all that matters, is the kids.
2006-12-20 09:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by motherof two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pissed isnt going to change the facts that he has another baby on the way. He is not a good dad to see his children with you only 2 days a month and live so close. Shower your kids with extra love and support and go on with your life. I hope your collecting child support. G'luck. My loser ex has 3 kids with me, 1 that lives 15 min from me and 1 that lives an hour from me and I hear his wife is now pregnant. he doesnt pay childsupport AND lives over 3000 miles away. I could care LESS. He is dead to me and my children and I don't care if he is breathing or not. I just keep paying his life insurance monthly and sit back and just wait...and wait. He is an assshole but I dont let THAT fact get to me. He will get his and so will your ex.
2006-12-20 09:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes what you need to do is move away hold your head up and take care of those kids with GOD help guys kill me w/that bull crap i feel like if you cant be there through the hard times then you for sure want be here for the good times you can do it but 1st pray about it and wait on GOD 2 direct your path and then talk to him and let him know how you feel but 2 days out of a month hell to the no make sure you are not raising this issue because of the new wife do it for the kids they deserve better i would move far away from that bastered or get a restraining order and of course CHILD SUPPORT lol gl
2006-12-20 09:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have no reason to be pissed.... He's not your husband anymore, he is free of any obligation to you, and if he so chooses, he can ignore the children you bore..... and as far as you were concerned, he obviously wasn't husband material, only a sperm donor. Spend you time doing something else, hon.... he's not worth YOUR concern.... But just as an aside, don't badmouth him to your children.... They'll find out by themselves. Your relationship with an ex is private business. You have no idea how destructive putting him down in front of your children is....
2006-12-20 09:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot of unknowns here. I would think he would want to see and be with them more than that. If it is his choice not to see them then, yes be pissed. I hope he is paying child support and helping out with other expenses. Sounds like he likes making kids but not maintaining them. It takes more than a good roll in the hay to make a father. He needs to curb the dog.
2006-12-20 09:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.... He's your EX remember!!!!! He will have to answer to his children when they get old enough to say . why weren't you around when we were young? All you can do now is let your children know how much YOU love them and that you will always be there for them. Let go of the feelings you still have for him and get on with your life and with your children. Possible man for you and your children in the future but you have to let go of the past first
2006-12-20 09:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd think that he'd know by now what causes this...but NO you dont have the right to be pissed since im sure his other babymomma's arent pissed about him having kids with you.
2006-12-20 09:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by bigjohninfla75 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong for being pissed, but I don't see what good will come of it.
Your ex is a loser for ignoring his kids. But he is also your ex. Any chance you are resentful of his happiness?
Hopefully you are happy too and it's just about the visitation.
2006-12-20 09:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU can not control how your ex-husband handles his life. What YOU need to do...is make sure your children know how much you love them. What he's doing is wrong and unfair to the children he already has. Blessed be....I know how hard this situation is for you.
2006-12-20 09:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋